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Cara Christina
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My boyfriend literally never wants to have sex. If I didn't ever try to initiate it we'd probably do it like once a…

My boyfriend literally never wants to have sex. If I didn't ever try to initiate it we'd probably do it like once a month, if that. He NEVER starts anything, and I'm constantly getting turned down. He's always been like this, since before I got pregnant, but it just makes me feel so shitty about myself and us. And it's just annoying. Like obviously I'm not getting it from anywhere else, and for me at least it's an important part of a relationship. Like how tf is he NEVER interested. 😒😒

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carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@beebaby Not to mention that the only reason it seems like I want to do it "all the time" is BECAUSE we never do it! Like obviously I'm always wanting to because I never get any, plus if I don't say anything it'll never happen. Ugh, I'm just so annoyed with him right now.

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@beebaby No, I agree 100%. It's not normal at all, especially for a guy. But he just gets super defensive and is like "I'm sorry, I just don't like to do it all the time" (which is bullshit honestly cause we hardly do it "all the time." We never do it. 😒) He would just get really mad if I tried to bring up getting any sort of help. And I agree, it is important for a relationship. That's why it's so frustrating 😔

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@beebaby No, we haven't. He would get super upset if I brought that up that something was "wrong with him" 😕

starshinepearl

leslie starshine

Мама двоих (младенец)

thank you 😊😊

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@starshinepearl aw, thank you so much, you too! ☺️💜

starshinepearl

leslie starshine

Мама двоих (младенец)

I wish you best and that you have a wonderful Christmas 🤗🤗🤗🤗😇😇😇😇

starshinepearl

leslie starshine

Мама двоих (младенец)

yeah you can save your relationship and talks to him, if he dont wanna change then don't be with a man like that forever, because you will be always unhappy, if your a hot girl like me you have to be with a man pasionate to

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@starshinepearl Thank you so much, I'll have to look into that! It seriously puts a strain on our relationship, at least for me

starshinepearl

leslie starshine

Мама двоих (младенец)

maybe he have less libid, talk to him, you can buy natural pills that increase the libid, it will help a lot, it happen when the man works a lot, the testosterone gets down, and that put him in a way he dosn't want anything, so many times I was passing through that and literally I was begin for sex, so I was leaving him for another man, and when he know he have change, he give me what I want more times and that save our marriage

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@mommyofdoubletrouble Maybe, I've NEVER actually seen him watch it though.. I really don't know

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@beebaby There's nothing I can do really, it just gets to me more sometimes than others and I get really sad about it. 😕 I was more just venting

mommyofdoubletrouble

Xianna

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is he more into porn maybe ?

carachristina55

Cara Christina

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@chloeadelle I don't think it's that he needs time, cause he's always been like this and we've been together for 2 years 😕 And he's not on any websites or anything that I know of. I really doubt it. I think it is just that he's less driven/interested. It's just so frustrating though, and it's hard not to let it bother me sometimes. Especially cause everyone I talk to says that it's not normal for guys to be like that. But yeah, I guess he's just one of those few that can take it or leave it. But ughhh, it's depressing 😔

chloeadelle

Chloe Adelle

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Do you think he just needs some time? Is he on any websites ? Or any email? .. ... maybe he doesn't like sex some men and women don't like it. @carachristina55,

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