My boyfriend literally never wants to have sex. If I didn't ever try to initiate it we'd probably do it like once a month, if that. He NEVER starts anything, and I'm constantly getting turned down. He's always been like this, since before I got pregnant, but it just makes me feel so shitty about myself and us. And it's just annoying. Like obviously I'm not getting it from anywhere else, and for me at least it's an important part of a relationship. Like how tf is he NEVER interested. 😒😒
@beebaby Not to mention that the only reason it seems like I want to do it "all the time" is BECAUSE we never do it! Like obviously I'm always wanting to because I never get any, plus if I don't say anything it'll never happen. Ugh, I'm just so annoyed with him right now.
@beebaby No, I agree 100%. It's not normal at all, especially for a guy. But he just gets super defensive and is like "I'm sorry, I just don't like to do it all the time" (which is bullshit honestly cause we hardly do it "all the time." We never do it. 😒) He would just get really mad if I tried to bring up getting any sort of help. And I agree, it is important for a relationship. That's why it's so frustrating 😔
yeah you can save your relationship and talks to him, if he dont wanna change then don't be with a man like that forever, because you will be always unhappy, if your a hot girl like me you have to be with a man pasionate to
maybe he have less libid, talk to him, you can buy natural pills that increase the libid, it will help a lot, it happen when the man works a lot, the testosterone gets down, and that put him in a way he dosn't want anything, so many times I was passing through that and literally I was begin for sex, so I was leaving him for another man, and when he know he have change, he give me what I want more times and that save our marriage
@chloeadelle I don't think it's that he needs time, cause he's always been like this and we've been together for 2 years 😕 And he's not on any websites or anything that I know of. I really doubt it. I think it is just that he's less driven/interested. It's just so frustrating though, and it's hard not to let it bother me sometimes. Especially cause everyone I talk to says that it's not normal for guys to be like that. But yeah, I guess he's just one of those few that can take it or leave it. But ughhh, it's depressing 😔
Do you think he just needs some time? Is he on any websites ? Or any email? .. ... maybe he doesn't like sex some men and women don't like it. @carachristina55,