I applaud all those who cosleep. We had our son in our bed the last four nights cuz he won't sleep now unless it's with us (he is sick) and i have gotten kicked in the ribs , face, slapped, had his ass in my face and got farted on, he laid across my head, and head butted me five times. Oh god I can't wait to try to put him back into his bed tonight.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.
I posted a picture of my son in the house in his car seat he had a snow suit jumper on n instead of people admiring his sweet innocent face they wanted to attack the fact that i didn’t adjust his straps yet. I caught a smile n took a pic calm down
I asked my husband to make the bed this morning since I'm packing up our family of 5 for our beach vacation. THIS is what he did, only his side.
my son only has 1 curl on his entire head.. lol he is half black & half white.. so he got half of our hair traits?? 😄 lol I want his whole head to have these curls!! 😞
Emma·
i only cosleep with my daughter when she is sick, for those reasons. my arm has to be under her head and i literally cannot move. super uncomfortable. kudos to those who can do it on a nightly basis
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@sk216, ik it's been awful. I don't think he sleeps any better either. He is use to a whole king size bed for himself and now he has to share it with me and my husband lol
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
My son is sick and wheezing.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@tm21308, oh no 😞 I hope he gets over it fast!
Alicia Fuentes·
I love co-sleeping with my son😍😍💚👣👦🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 it's amazing and easy since I am breastfeeding. I wouldn't trade it for the world .
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
I couldn't do it. I did it when he was just born. He slept on my chest. But after he started to move I said no cuz he moves all over the place. Idk how you do it @alixiafuentes I was so happy when tonight he went to his own bed to sleep. I almost wanted to cry I was so happy I wouldn't get hit all night lol
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
Me too might take him in. He is really hot by his chest.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@tm21308, I would take him in or make an appointment for tomorrow. Ik my son had a high fever and we went in and they gave him a shot and within thirty mins boom fever gone and hasn't came back
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
We have a 8 am appointment.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@tm21308, keep us updated. I hope he gets better as soon as possible. Sick baby's are no fun
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
Oh yes. At Er gave ibptofin. On oxygen and xrays.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@tm21308, how scary!
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
They think he has croup. But gave him a steroid shot and oxygen. Staying a few more hours to keep an eye on him.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
Oh no!!! Croup they can give medication for right? Hope you got home and both are resting well. @tm21308
Melissa·
Мама четверых детей
Still at hospital under oxygen tent. He has no fever. Might go home today. I stayed here at the hospital. Got about 5 hrs of sleep. Finally eating. Haven't ate since noon yesterday.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
Wow poor baby boy! I hope the tent helps. Ik my nephew has that and he has to have breathing treatments. So hopefully they let you take him home when he is fully better and out of the tent and then you both get a nap together.
Jessica·
Мама сына (1 год)
@tm21308,