so annoyed me and partner and my sister all live together as before baby was born me and my sister lived together then…
so annoyed me and partner and my sister all live together as before baby was born me and my sister lived together then my partner moved in after anyway my partner doesn't want my sister living with us anymore and wants to move but it's my house we live in with my name on it and i dont just want to kick ny sister out shell have no where to go so now hes decided come the new year he's gonna move into one of his mates 1 bedroom flat !!! and I'm like we'll what about me and the child and he's like obviously yous can stay but I don't see the point in us still being together if we're not together?? if that makes any sense lol what do yous ladies think ?
K·
@ellie424, how come he does not want your sister too live with use may I ask xx
Eloise·
because he thinks that it's not going to work out all of us living together but my sister is hardly here due to her work and social life twice a week tops shed maybe stay @chesscalouise2 and my sister knows she's not going to be living with us forever she said she's gonna start looking in the new year but he wants to move out but I don't want to leave my house xx
Eloise·
I understand were he's coming from I wouldn't want to live with his sisters either but he doesn't understand that I cnt just kick her out either xx
Sara-Louise·
He's basically given you an ultimatum. Your sister moves out or I will. Quite immature behaviour & hardly that of a Father. So he doesn't like living with your sister. Life's tough. My husband & I had to live with my folks for nearly a year when we had Morgan. She can't just move out if she has no where to go. I guess all 3 of you need to sit down like adults & talk about your options. If you want to stay with him what's your sister going to do.
Eloise·
@sara-lou, as much as I love him and he's the father of my child if he makes me pick my sister will come first every time xxx
Eloise·
I've spoken to her about it and we agreed for her to start looking in the new year because coming up to Christmas no one can afford to go house hunting xxx
Sara-Louise·
Behaving how he is I wouldn't blame you. My husband didn't particularly enjoy having to live with my folks but we had no other option at the time. It's hardly going to be forever he just needs to see the bigger picture. If he feels moving out away from his partner & child is more important than getting on with your sister for a while maybe he needs to rethink his priorities...
Eloise·
@sara-lou, exactly!! hes just being selfish and thinking of himself xx
Rayya·
Dont do it plz a sister is something very precious ,we can find a friend, a man ,a husband ,a son or a daughter but a bro or a sis never happens twice trust me