Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Sometimes I have no patience for my dog. He's a puppy and he constantly wants me to hold him or pick him up and he constantly cries. My patience while pregnant is literally at 0 and I feel bad because he's just a baby but I can't help it his crying irritates me 😭
so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
jess paredes·
Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)
once u two settle to live on ur own it's different because u don't have people making any decision or comments about the relationship but it could turn out for better my man before we moved in together he had alot of debt I have good credit I just helped him to get out of it now our lives are way better helping each other being positive n ofkourse love overcomes anything just have a sit down with him tell him the positive things n negatives ...
Victoria Santiago·
@ingridm89, his whole fam in one house even grandma Nd grandpa 2 sisters mom and us 3 .... she never worked a day in her life and @mamash_8 yes he makes the money but I manage EVERYTHING the only problem is he never gives me anything to save not one dime and it upsets me cus every penny counts .., he's not doing anything to move forward he's stuck in one spot and i would work to leave faster but he needs to put his foot down with HIS fam about caring for our son
jess paredes·
Мама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)
I think u should talk to him and make him understand because honestly I think living on ur own with ur lil family feels really good.. well I'm the one who manages the money lol I put money to save and money what we really need to get I also do couponing that helps so much too
Ingrid·
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I feel you. that's what I'm afraid of also. My SO is so babied by his mom here and I'm trying to get him to snap out of it. I do not want to live here long and that's what scares me. His mom sometimes get herself in these situations and I feel bad, but I mean her kids can't be helping her out all the time.