@grayce1219 Thank you. It definitely sucks. But now I have someone watching over me and that's what I will tell myself everyday! Don't ever be afraid to cry over your loss. Also, don't be afraid to ask "why me?" Because that really is an answer I'll forever ask but can yet half answer/understand.
you ARE a mother. your baby is simply watching over you from above. there is absolutely nothing wrong with calling yourself a mother, before this pregnancy I miscarried 5 times and still said I was a mother,
and one day, you will carry to full term and have your rainbow baby, and when your time comes, you'll get to see your angel baby and hold your angel as well.
Yes you will! Perhaps a child picked out for you by the one you loss. I always felt my son was picked for me by my family who passed away, that my family held him before he came to me. Maybe it's crazy but it's how I feel.
@bonniesue, thank you π I just have to keep reminding myself that I'll have a child to hold someday. But I'll get to hold the one I lost someday as well.
I think you can call yourself whatever you're comfortable with. I know women who miscarry that call themselves mothers and go out educating people about loss. And there are others who do not because it was too hard to explain no child being around. There's really no right or wrong answer. Just what feels right in your heart.