So I just found out my husband has been flirting and talking to some girl! Can't believe this is happening!!

I've been in the same situation.

@lexdotjayy, what did you do? I'm completely lost and broken

First time this has ever happened and we've been married for 9 years and two kids @lexdotjayy

We were living together & I left him right before I had my daughter . I told him if these are the things he wants to do then he can lose his family as well . he got extremely lonely & realized I was the only person who stuck by his side thru all the bs & he got his act together.

He kept trying me a few times during my pregnancy so I put him on child support to show him I'm not playing then I told him I was taking our daughter away if the shit continued.

I'm so sorry

@lexdotjayy, wow, this is crazy!!!

@allyk.xmommy, it's ok, it hurts a lot!!

@lexdotjayy, people think its crazy, but it works. shows their true colors. they will either give up the bs and fight or they will give up on the relationship which proves they didn't want it to continue. it's hard, but either way, it works

@allyk.xmommy, @aidenabby9630 yup , we've been through a lot & this is his first daughter so he knew if he fcked up , it was gonna get real REAL quick .

He wants to go to marriage counseling and he wants to see a psychologist for himself and he said he'll get out of social media and not even look at his phone if I stay with him. I don't know what to do! He's begging me to stay with him and that it was just a moment of weakness. This chick lives in New York and we live in Orlando and she resembles me! I just don't get why he did it. @allyk.xmommy @lexdotjayy

My husband said the same thing & still kept flirting . you gotta make him feel like he's hit rock bottom .

@lexdotjayy, I see. I think I know what to do. I'm just gonna stay at my friend's house until he realizes he really fucked up

@aidenabby9630, if he's willing to do counseling like he said then thats a great start! maybe it truly was a moment of weakness and the the counseling and therapist will help seperate yourself like you need but don't give up consider what he's willing to do. that shows he does still care. im so sorry for what he's done and how he's made you feel there is no excuse for that! I hope and pray you 2 work through this and your heart is healed in time. not just for ur kids but for u, u deserve a faithful husband.

I gave him chance after chance since he made the comment about therapy .. so I moved to my moms house when I was 8 & half months pregnant . I thought letting him be there when I was in labor was gonna make him get his shit straight but nope . now that she's almost 4 months , he's finally being a husband.

@lexdotjayy, wow! I'm glad he's finally being the man he's supposed to be for you and his baby 🙂