I've never been engorged before so I'm just assuming that's what this awful pain is. My right boob is so hard and swollen and it hurts and I tried expressing milk for the past 20 minutes and it didn't relieve the pain. I tried putting a hot compress on so that maybe I would have a let down and I had one but still didn't relieve the pain it hurts so freaking bad and it's too much milk for my baby he won't eat it all, plus it was like this at his 3am feeding so I didn't give him the left side, so now that one is full too. Not engorged but he has to eat off both and I know my right one will still be full when he's done what can I do please help