hi guys i just need to vent someone to talk to.... so here it goes....
hi guys i just need to vent someone to talk to.... so here it goes....
i have 4 boys who are healthy super cute and i just recently had a baby girl a week ago. She is the first girl on my husbands side of the family very rare for them to have girls as he has all brothers and rhey all have all boys.
any who i was born with a cleft lip and palate. My daughter also was born with one. i post pictures of her on facebook bc she is nothing less then one of the prettiest babies i ever saw seriously im not just saying it bc she is mine. im saying it bc she is so pretty.
my mother in law who is always on facebook has not liked one photo of her i seriously post like 30 a day.. ok so im complaining about likes no not exactly much more then that. she shares her other sons picture of his baby on her page and like look how handsome he is... blah blah... ok that is fine too but then i posted a picture of kimberly the baby with her thanksgiving shirt on and soon after i posted a picture of my son who is one. she liked his picture.... which was nice of her. but didnt Kimberly's .. ok .... then i messaged her bc she bought the boys some winter stuff and i sent her a picture of kimberly which she bought the thanksgiving shirt for her (before we knew she had a cleft) and was like she likes the shirt you got her.. she said quote " ur welcome" just like that.... maybe this is in my head and im just being a over protective mama bear but i feel like she is ashamed of kimberly or something. to the point we did not go to thanksgiving dinner at his families houses which we usually do every year bc i feel like if she cant treat my kids equal to each other or their cousins then im cutting her out bc i never want any of my children feeling like they are not good enough......
am i being a mama bear turning this into something more then what it is or do you guys see what im saying....... and would feel the same way?
and just for fun here is baby Kimberly swinging away last night ❤😍😍😍
lora·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
thanks ladies and @beebaby i thought that might be the case as well but since i have had her she hasnt came to see her since the hospital and at the hospital she didnt hold her like she did the boys. maybe im just excepting the worse. and yes i hate it to we went to the store for formula our first time out and a lady said she be so pretty if it wasnt for her lip. i just cried and cried. i wanted to be ugly back but what would that solve. i just strolled away and got my formula.
miss Rachel·
Мама троих детей
u have beautiful baby thank god .....who care what she think or care.
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awww she's too gorgeous😚 and one beautiful😍😍 princess 👑 it's sad that his side of the family doesn't see it. I agree with @jjsmommyjj711 it's their fault. Sad 😢 you had to experience this from a love one I would cut ✂ her off and block🚫 her from my social media accounts. You can't have that negativity around and your gorgeous 😘 princess 👑😍😍😍
Taneka Thomas·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (37 нед.)
i hate when Mother inlaws r like that.. i have a feeling my mother in law is going to be like this. she is all about looks.. i sent her a 3d ultrasound of my son. she was like.. why does he look like that, i said HOW she was like it looks like something is wrong with him.. am like nothing aint wrong he okay!!!! all she talks about everyday is a gope he come out perfect and is not an special heads child. am LIKE REGARDLESS HOW HE COMES OUT HE IS MY CHILD!!!!!!! FUCK. shit like this grts me so fucking up set. n clearly ur MIL is doing the same thing. she aint proud of her granddaughter.. n she should be hella proud because that's the first girl in the family..
Hazel·
В ожидании первенца
Def not****
Hazel·
В ожидании первенца
For an outsider to judge there hasn't been enough evidence to see that she's "obviously" treating them unequally but I would be upset at the situation as well. You're def NOT turning this into something more than it is but you're doing the right thing for your family. You know better than anyone about the situation and if you aren't getting the best vibes from her then I wouldn't feel comfortable with that around my kids either. You're doing the right thing by keeping your distance but staying cordial 👌🏽 beautiful little princess you have by the way 🎀✨
Beonka·
Мама сына-младенца
I totally get what you're saying! I'd be thinking the same way if it were me! And BTW your daughter is ADORABLE!!! 😍😍
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I totally understand what you are saying and i would feel the same way. Something a little similar happened to me like before with an x's mom and boooy I went off on that lady called her everyname in the book I was furious! I'll be damned if anyone treats my kids differently and if I were you I would cut her out too! The baby is innocent and she is a grown women that is her grandchild regardlesss! she is so cute by the way!
Dounia Gregorio·
Мама сына (1 год)
she's a beautiful little girl and for his side of the family to not see that is their fault