wow , I'm stuck between a Rock and a hard place I don't know what to do. our 4 year anniversary is on the 30 and he want to pull this shit. he claims it's because I been bitchin for the past two days yet he was so set on leaving tonight and staying the night with his friend from work . I begged and begged him not to go ( I shouldn't had ) I have cried all I can cry . he looked me straight in my eyes while im crying then walked away. then wants to say if I put his shit out I don't love him? lmao. ok. I said alright here's your chance to prove to me , if you love me don't go. but nope. he insisted on going. so now I am stuck between putting his shit out. or don't and then not know a damn thing he doing tonight. I can't just get up and leave and I supposed to be at the hospital to do my damn sugar test but no. I can't go now. he took the car payment money and is gonna blow it. smfh. he is such a piece of shit sometimes.
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@mommyofavaka, @shellbell0391 @shalonda_b @firemanswife UPDATE: he asked if I set his stuff out i said yupp. he went to work today I've barely texted him , so he called me apologizing . saying he is so sorry , admitting all the shit he was wrong about and talking about how good of a mama I am and how much he loves me. blah blah. worrying about if we going to my family together on Thanksgiving . I just act like I don't care and say I don't know. his attitude is changing quick
durong the pregnancy my bf and I argue A LOT! So one day I left to my parents house.. And text him "i wont be home tonight" then for a week I didnt text him, I never respond to him. I toke pics with my family incase in the future he'll claim I was cheating. Adventually when he finially text how he wanted a future with me i respond. I spend few hours with him then go back to my parents house.. Then again I spend time with him then go back..I did that a few times until i was sure his attitude was gone.. So what I'm saying...MAKE HIM WORRY! If he doesn't come back then he wasn't ready to be your man.
Pack his stuff up and tell him to go. I did it with my bf and he was back a couple days later promising to shape up. Gotta be tough wth these men so they don't think they run the show!
Ohhh okay then yes even if you live with mom maybe other family to stay with for a few days only because it's not as drastic but he will still get the point and if that's something you never done before he will be nervous especially if you not really responding to him.It will also give you time away to think or take your mind off of things.Being pregnant is hard in relationships because they know you can't do anything (literally) so they start testing boundaries.I really hope this works out for you.You are the prize so it's ok to set boundaries.❤️
@aaaamoney, if you packed his things then yeah you serious about putting him out, if you think that's what's best for you and your child then that's your decision, let that door hit him where God split him! I'm pretty sure your mommy not tolerating no bs from him, you gave him an choice to choose you or the streets and he chosen the streets, I hate to comment on your situation but don't let him continue to hurt you! hope you will be fine later today!
because he said he will be back tomorrow I just don't know what to do
and thank you @shalonda_b I'm gonna screenshot what you said and remember it. best advice I think I could have got.. the thing is we live with my mama. he doesn't have anybody he can stay with but obviously he found somewhere to go tonight . you are so right about him knowing he has me. I'm just not sure how I would go about it seeing how if I pack up his stuff and set it outside which I have already done I just don't know what would happen when he comes back to get it
U don't have family by you? Now is the perfect time to be with them and let him miss you/worry about you.I would nicely send a text stating his actions are not conducive to your health and that you need time and stay away for a day or two.He knows he's got you so let him worry for a chance so he won't try to pull that shit again.Guys like to see how much they can get away with.Let him know be around family or friends,someone that can support you and take you away from all that foolishness and don't be quick to answer the phone or text.You come first.Let him miss you.
@shalonda_b thank you 💕