I have a question on what I should do with my baby daddy :P
About a month or so ago he cheated on me with my younger aunt (crazy I know, he says because we weren't "together" it wasn't cheating but we were still sexual and lived together sooo cheating....) anyways he now lives in Texas and he says my aunt moved with him but the last few days he's been calling me telling me how much he misses me and he made such a mistake. I honestly don't think she would give up her entire life to go to Texas after "dating" a month. I want to call her work to see if she quit or went to work but is that weird? Should I not care? I guess I just want to know the truth
My gut is telling me she didn't go and he has a job and one day when he's settled he'll have us move with him (it was always our plan to move to the south)
What should I do?
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@leahsmommi, if she is in California and he's in Texas (I know he is) I can forgive him and move on but if she's in Texas I couldn't. Texas was our plan we were going to move there and raise our daughter with his other kids. I just wish I knew
Only you know what you can handle. Other people are hard for me to forgive but I've seen it done. As long and you can let it go completely I say go with it. It may be better to know that at least you tried. But I'm hoping it all works out for you.
I'm just so confused because I should tell him to screw himself yet every time I talk to him now it's like I'm talking to the old him before we started fighting before he cheated. I guess I just want another shot at my daughter having a family.
@leahsmommi, she isn't the type of get dirty move away from California girl. But then again I never thought she'd sleep with my boyfriend and the father of my new baby but hey crazier things happen
@pinkleopard, he tells me about his problems and how he feels and from how he talks it doesn't sound like they are together but he randomly throws in the man she gets on my nerves or something about her but I don't know I feel honestly like he wants to keep me but he also wants me to move on while he's getting his shit together but doesn't want me to move on
Wait .. lying about her being there? Or messing w her?
I would find out everything first then go from there. Does he communicate with you about problems.
Honestly my gut is telling me he is lying about her being there because he doesn't want to tell me what he's doing but I feel like I can trust him oddly I haven't felt like it in a long time. @pinkleopard
wow that's crazy I would tell him good bye but that's me... do you think you could trust him?
@eryka616, i hope so to its sad to think she may never know any of her siblings