yes. it saddens me and pisses me off

@twinpeanut, exactly. they're taking them for granted when we just want 1 to love

ugh i understand that completely. iy makes me sad too hearing all these stories where people neglect or abuse their children. I just want one or two to love

@barbiebonbon, thank you! that's a great idea :) tell me how yours goes too! :)

if i were you I'd do some research into who your insurance covers and then google them. health grades uses patient feed back to give doctors a 1-5 star rating. go to the one with the highest rating. that way you can be sure they are up to date on current issues and treatments, have a good staff, and should avoid any age related bias. I have used this system on all my doctors for the past several years and always gotten really good doctors. Good luck to you! let me know how it goes. @_aaamber_

@barbiebonbon, I hope they tell you some good news! no I haven't gone yet, but tomorrow I'm going to call my insurance & schedule to see if theirs something wrong. I'm just a little nervous that they'll judge me because I'm only 20

i have an appointment in the first part of January. the time we weren't using protection my health was terrible with unrelated issues so we just chalked it up to that. but in sept last year i got my health back so started trying for real. figured i wasn't getting preggers cause my body was still recovering. then went through a phase were i was too afraid to go to the doctor because i was afraid something was wrong. Now im to the point were if there is something wrong i want to know and hopfully fix it. the first appointment they have is in jan so i have to wait. have you gone to a dr? @_aaamber_

@barbiebonbon, so you know that its not fair: ( have you ever gone to a doctor for it ?

I'm in the same boat. we've been trying since Sept last year. Not using protection for a year and a half before that. still no baby. yet women i know that do not want a baby and are doing everything that is suppose to make it harder for you to conceive (drugs and alcohol) get pregnant so easy. @_aaamber_

@barbiebonbon, it just sucks . it's been a Lil over a year n nothing. hopefully it happens soon!

i feel ya!