just found out were expecting baby number two. I'm in full panic mode.. me and my so aren't together right now because my mom hates him to say the least.. haven't told anyone yet, just him and y'all.
@kristandley, Congrats on baby #2 & do you live with your mom? If so I see your concerns but if not then I feel like you need to make your own choices as to who you dates & I think your mom will come around hopefully
Yeah I get that then come back with the fact that you don't want you're kids growing up with a different dad then. Either way if she choose to not see you because you want you're family together then so be it she will come around. I got engaged at 17 my parents were ok with it but my mom didn't like him as much. I told her he's my family now and we all need to except him and that he isn't going any where. @kristandley
@zayzay101, that's what I was thinking. my mom's hard headed. she has four kids and is on husband number four. so she's quick to tell you how hard shes had it.
@kristandley, congratulations on baby #2, and as far as you're mom, you need to sit and talk to her about it maybe when you tell her you're pregnant. Just say that you don't want to be a single mom of 2 and she won't help like their dad would or something
Being optimistic is a good idea! She's your mom and will love you no matter what, even if she doesn't like him. Plus it's your family, you do what you feel is best(:
@haleynicole, thanks! I'm trying to stay optimistic but my baby girl is only nine months old and we've been ebf so I've been counting down to whole milk so I can get a break but now I'm pregnant again so I'm back to square one. and I don't believe in abortion and neither does my mom but im so scared shell hate me. she already said if I ever go back to him she'd never forgive me.
@janine724, I do live with her.