about to enter a really rough patch... I had to quit my job because of medical issues.. our electric and heat are turned off.. we are about to lose our house.. where we are currently staying (with my grandparents) we can't have our cats so they are stuck at our freezing house.. we can't stay here much longer but once we leave we have no where else to go.. my fiances 21st birthday is Saturday and I can't even afford to get him a present or take him to dinner.. we have an almost 6 month old and I'm 10 weeks pregnant... the stress of it all is having a really bad toll on our relationship.. so stressed out and at a loss on what to do... 😭 (not asking for pitty from anyone, just needed to vent out everything on my mind...)
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@nolans1stlove, wonderful words of encouragement.
always seek god when times are down and always rememeber there is a light at the end of the tunnel
in time everything works out pray and have faith I feel for u girl.
have u tried getting ur gas and electric on pipp? that will at least get those back on. and maybe see what other kind of resources r available to maybe help u. Hope everything works out for u and u can get some help
Remember this too shall pass! And when it does, you will see how much stronger you are and your relationship is because of it! God bless!
Right now you can't worry about a birthday or birthday gift. Stay focused on getting out of your current situation and into a better one. Make sure you exhaust all options for your home and bills. If there's absolutely nothing that can be done you may have to stay in separate places to figure everything out in order to come back together stronger than ever. But always pray over your situation. No matter how bad and rough it is. Trust me I'm not in my idea place in life but I'm still thankful for life. Talk with your grandparents on trying to stay longer. Try finding a side job, something simple. People want you to do stuff for them, then start charging them for the work.
I'm going to pray for you and your family try not to stress if you need a friend my inbox is always open
So this morning my fiancé and me went to my folks for Christmas. On our way there we had to stop at his ex fiancé house to drop off an ornament we found of hers when we were setting up our tree. I was upset because I really didn't want to see her especially on our first Christmas being engaged and our daughters first Christmas because she has been mean about me in the past. Now I come to find out that she has been asking him about our daughter and stuff like that. Do I have a right to be upset o...
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I don’t think we would have been able to move if I didn’t have my stay at home job, we would still be in a neighborhood with our house getting broken into. I’m so thankful and blessed to have found a legit home job so my kids don’t have to go to day care, counting my blessings daily
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Having an intense debate on Facebook about school fees for public school. I'm in the "stop whining about school fees and stop having kids if you can't afford them" camp and there is the other camp of "free school is a constitutional right! It's bull s*** we have to pay anything at all".
I know the struggle! Hang in there girl, maybe get the cats a new home so you're not stressed about that and can focus on yourself and your family. I went through something similar. Keep praying and hoping for the best, God won't give you what you can't handle.