ugh. My boyfriend is refusing to have sex with me because he's scared I will go into labor. i'm 35 weeks and 3 cm dilated and "soft" and have had minor contractions. doctor hasn't said anything about no sex or even bed rest. I kinda feel like he's just using that as an excuse to not have sex with me,we've never had problems with our sex life. It's making me feel very insecure about myself.