Is it bad that when I look at my child I don't smile or feel jumpy with happiness I just kinda feel numb and depressed and full of anxiety all the time I'm a first time mom 18 years old and I do love him but idk I feel distant and just not happy
Sounds like post partum depression. I had it after having my daughter. Didn't affect me taking care of her but felt nothing in general (really bad time for me my entire pregnancy and after she was born for a few months).if you want to talk you can message me, I'm a listener.
I was like that the first couple of weeks and I felt so guilt for it but I couldn't change it. Luckily for me it just clicked and I don't feel that way anymore. It's normal mama, don't beat yourself up.
Post partum mama. We all get it at some point. I felt a little of the same. I had my son last year in Oct. i was 18 turning 19 a month after. When I had him I cried but I didnt want to hold him much. I think i was just scared and a little down it wasn't thw daughter I wantes. But I loved him regardless. As he got older I started to fall in love with him more. Now we're on baby #2 and I'll be 20 this month. Im excited because now we are having a girl but I'm afraid when she's born the attention I have to give her is gonna make me and my son super distance even though hes a mommas boy
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
I feel horrible because i dont want to be pregnant. I mean i was excited and everything when i found out. Mlre so shocked. But as time is going on, i just dont want to be pregnant. Is that an ok thing to say? Although i already love this little girl and thats mostly why i feel bad for feeling that way. Not sure if something is wrong with me or its just im over it now because i feel like this pregnancy is dragging on
I just feel like this Marriage is not worth fighting for anymore! I rather be single and happy then in a marriage and be miserable I just can't do it anymore
Thanks to everybody for the congratulations
I’m happy the baby is fine but I’d be lying if i didn’t tell you i been crying the whole afternoon . Gender disappointment is real and i feel like a terrible
Person for taking it so so hard , and you can think I’m a terrible person too idc. I really wanted my daughter but i guess not this time
And it just makes me sad that i won’t have that right now . And I’m allowed to feel that way . Just need your support to get over it
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
man y_vanessa, thankyou so much I do feel that exactly and that in inadequate I'm scared to talk to a counselor or physiatrist because I don't want them to take my kid away and deem me as a bad mother ):