OK mommy's when you have a new baby do you normally take them to the doctors when you know they're not themselves and you believe they might be sick!

we all tend to forget to take care of ourselves. my question is I don't feel good....when do you guys go for yourself? I'm having a hard time going to the doctors for me like I know that I'm not feeling great but I just can't get past hearing " the words already

"you have the flu" or " it must be a viral thing" and to keep an eye on things for the next few days rest and push fluids and come back and get checked in again if you have any worsening symptoms or yada yada yada!!!

My son is 3 1/2 months and I know that he isn't feeling too great either you will still smile I can still get him to laugh he's eating well he has wet diapers he's pooping every day I know he's teething already and he sleeps fairly decent he tends to feel a little bit warm to me but it's really hard at this age to get a good reading any kind of rectal temperature versus the ones you scan on the four head I only will get like 99.3....

I have been waiting things out for a good four days probably a little longer I'm supposed to go out of town on Thursday so I am wondering feeling like this at home is doable but a road trip 12 hours there at least makes me more concerned since we going to be far from home.

(this is a funeral in honoring of our grandpa up so it's a really big deal to my family since they have not met our son)

What would you guys do? I worry more about him than me of course but then again I know I can't take care of him I am not well either.

He is a fully breast-fed baby if this has any indications of helping thanks so much for reading and helping me by your advice