I have a question..
I'm a first time mommy I have back pain because I hurt it a long time at work do any of you mommies recommend me to get the epidural ?
@jackiee011416, ive had three(horrible experiences on all three) but this time im not going to get one...i have a small cavity where the epidural has to be places and it hurts sooooooo bad when they put it in, they have to inflate the cavity just to insert it...
I had an awesome experience with an epidural. as long as you stay still while the doc is putting it in, you well be fine. I'm so happy I just had that one pinch rather than feeling her come out. I didn't even make one noise pushing her out lol. best decision ever.
I'm not getting one due to mild scoliosis... and previous disc issues.
I'm not getting one this time around bc of the horrible recovery I had from it the first time
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
I got an epidural with my son and it was amazing being able to sleep through labor and laugh during pushes but it broke my heart when they took him a few hours later for his first bath and I was unable to go because the numbness was still wearing off and I couldn't feel my legs. I also have been told epidural can slow down labor which is a negative thing too but I don't thinks it's actually proven. With this baby my plan is to do it all natural...I also have bad back pain but honestly when the contractions start you don't focus on the old pain. Just do your research, talk to your doctor and go in with an open mind :)