@babyg407, poor momma. you are right. you know your baby best. good luck to you.

No @concrete she won't take a pacifier. If I leave my husband to sooth her she gets all worked up and will cry for an hour or two. That makes me feel like shit so I'd rather just help her fall back to sleep fast. She will grow out of it I'm sure but in the mean time I'm exhausted.

@babyg407, even though it sounds awful, and I had to leave the house and left my husband to do, she needs to relearn how to soothe herself...

oh boy! my daughter did that. and she wouldn't take one, would she?

sometimes I can pat her butt and she falls back to sleep but most of the time I have to nurse her. I think she's basically using me as a pacifier @concrete

@babyg407, what does she want when she wakes up?