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Ashley Pugh
Ashley Pugh
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

To all of you first time moms, I absolutely promise you going into labor and having a baby is not as scary as people…

To all of you first time moms, I absolutely promise you going into labor and having a baby is not as scary as people make it out to be. In the picture below you can see with my first son I was terrified because I listened to everyone else's birthing stories. With my first son i didnt go into labor, i had a planned csection but it turned into an emergency c-section when the anesthesiologist tried 4 times to give me a spinal but It wouldnt work. Now with my 2nd son I did go into labor but I was rushed to the OR for another emergency c-section but if you can tell by the picture I wasn't scared at all I knew what to expect and I didn't listen to everyone else. Now in 8 weeks I will be having another csection because I have already had 2. The best advice I can give is don't listen to everyone else because everybody is different. I can't say don't be scared because no matter what you're going to be scared but in the end its totally worth it!! 💖💖💖💖

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del_1517533790_zuly2312

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@nickola112000, oh I see I wonder what mine will say my oldest is almost 9 and my youngest is almost three.

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nickola112000

Ashley PughМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@zuly2312, I have and they told me that they really don't like to do more then 3 csections and since I didn't wait the full year after my 2nd csection I have quite a bit of scar tissue. I got pregnant on the depo shot 10 months after my csection. My doctor told me if I wanted to have another baby I could but she wouldn't recommend it. I think it all depends on your doctor and your body.

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del_1517533790_zuly2312

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Yeah I feel like it should because it should be a planned csection, my last two where emergency. So hopefully 😊. Have you asked if you can get another c section? we want one more but idk if it would be too risky.

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nickola112000

Ashley PughМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@zuly2312, It was so much better the 2nd time. I wasn't so tense. I was very relaxed and it made it so much better. But with my first son they had already pumped so much medicine in me they had to make a quick decision. Hopefully everything will go so much smoother since this is your third baby. It made a big difference with me.

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del_1517533790_zuly2312

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Oh not bad! Maybe will be better for me since I feel real anxious about it.

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nickola112000

Ashley PughМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@zuly2312, they told me they would have to put me to sleep and get him out fast before the medicine got to him.

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del_1517533790_zuly2312

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I'm scared that my spinal won't go through this next time. It was very hard last time then I started feeling everything. So what did they when it didn't work?

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nickola112000

Ashley PughМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

😂😂😂😂

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nickola112000

Ashley PughМама двоих (1 год, 3 года), ждёт третьего

@beebaby, I didn't say everyone's ending in a happy ending. I had complications with my second son and he had to be but in the nicu for a while because his lungs weren't development. I don't understand how this was nothing negative but some how you've tried to turn it into something negative. Goodness save all you negatively for someone else. Why is there always someone trying to cause drama?! 😚😚😚

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txyogagirl

LeahМама сына-младенца

@nickola112000, I agree with u I didn't have a c section but went into labor naturally the entire 9m I had it in my head it's suppose to hurt God made it that way but it's only for one day then it will be over. I had no meds and it wasn't bad at all. It was hard but really it's mostly about the attitude going in if u make it hard it will be. This is my first baby

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babymfoley

StefanieВ ожидании первенца

I needed to hear this ❤

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Before u become pregnant think of this Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks? Do I want to be in…

Before u become pregnant think of this Do I want to be uncomfortable as hell for 40-42 weeks? Do I want to be in horrible pain for up to 14-16 hours even longer Can I handle pushing a big ass head through my vagina Can I handle this with no pain meds(sometimes u can't make it in time) Do I want to go to the hospital 10x before I'm actually in labor. Because inducing your labor at 32-37 weeks for your own selfish needs or getting a csection to do it the "easy" way is just plain selfish and FYI a csection is no easy way out. Maybe cause u Dont go thro labor pains but if you r getting a csection to cut out the most rewarding part because u quit frankly Dont want to be in pain your selfish as hell I've had csection n vaginal So Dont come for me BEING INDUCED IS DANGEROUS TO YOU AND YOUR CHILD! LET BABY STAY IN AS LONG AS POSSIBLE IF BABY IS HEALTHY THIS IS COMING FROM THE MOUTH OF A WOMEN WHO DELIVERED A SON AT 19WEEKS NOT BY CHOICE AND WHO HAS TO GET SHOTS ONCE A WEEK TO CARRY MY BABYS!

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.