Seriously need to vent for just a moment. Lol
So this evening the hubby and I told my mother in law we were expecting baby #2. Our daughter just turned one in September. Her response to me was that after this one I needed to have my tubes tied. I told her the hospital wouldn't allow it with me being only 23 when I deliver #2 and not having three or more children. And she fired back with well I got mine tied at 23 I guess you will just have to find somewhere else to deliver that will do it then. Ummm excuse me.... my body my choice.
me neither but they act as if I've had 20 kids instead of 2 @mommy_maynard
@ashley07, ignore them dear. I don't know when 2 kids became such a big deal.
I'm going through the same thing my oldest is 2 and I'm fixing to have another and I'll be 20 I'm 5 days and my family has told me I need to get my tubes tied or he needs to get fixed
@christimary0, yes!!! Haha I love this! ❤️ I think someone just didn't want to be a "Grandma"...just like she couldn't handle being a "mom".
@mommy_maynard, 🤔🤔🤔 I wouldn't personally be messing with having babies after 40. Too many complications because of advanced maternal age. My goal is to have my kiddos all grown and out of the house before 45 so that I'm still young. 👌as if she gets any say in when you have your kids or how many you have 😂 she can take a seat
Thanks ladies. I've calmed down a lot. Now I can't help but laugh at her lol.
She didn't want us having kids before we were 40. Lmao! Plus she walked out on her two boys before they were out of diapers and there's only a year and a half between them. And she claims to have done everything on her own. Someone is delusional. Lmao! @christimary0
Why is she acting like this is baby #6? 😂 2 kids isn't a lot!
I would have LOST it, how rude! Do what you want and enjoy these precious moments.
Why do people always make a moment about what you need to do with your life. If you don't accept then okay, the rest isn't your business
@ryliannsmommy, I am livid. Lmao! But seriously omg I can't believe she said that and after I told her I planned on trying a long term birth control after this baby. Nope that's not good enough for her. Need to be permanent. Ugh! I could have called her every name in the book haha but I just walked away.
My doctor told me I have severe preeclampsia😔😔😔 now I'm scared💔 I hope Leah is born healthy🌸 and I hope I deliver her with no complications😔
I broke down at my moms house today ... because of the debt we owe and Passover is coming and it’s a very expensive holiday ... it was just way too much .... my mom i guess told my brother that I’m suffering and he called me over and asked me why i didn’t just ask for help, and offered to help when i need it . And gave me basically 4K to help for the month and if i need more to ask ... now one thing about me , is that i will suffer silently and won’t ask for help.... I’ve always been that way. ...
I need to ask someone this have you literally regret having a child with someone. I love my daughter with all my heart but I really regret ever being with her dad.

So my daughters cord was wrapped around her neck I just delivered her vaginally she was so beautiful rip my angel
FTM problems...
So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It...
Haha I'm pregnant with #4... and my mil said "thank you" lol
but your body, your life. I cannot stand when people act like that!