Seriously need to vent for just a moment. Lol
So this evening the hubby and I told my mother in law we were expecting baby #2. Our daughter just turned one in September. Her response to me was that after this one I needed to have my tubes tied. I told her the hospital wouldn't allow it with me being only 23 when I deliver #2 and not having three or more children. And she fired back with well I got mine tied at 23 I guess you will just have to find somewhere else to deliver that will do it then. Ummm excuse me.... my body my choice.
me neither but they act as if I've had 20 kids instead of 2 @mommy_maynard
@ashley07, ignore them dear. I don't know when 2 kids became such a big deal.
I'm going through the same thing my oldest is 2 and I'm fixing to have another and I'll be 20 I'm 5 days and my family has told me I need to get my tubes tied or he needs to get fixed
@christimary0, yes!!! Haha I love this! ❤️ I think someone just didn't want to be a "Grandma"...just like she couldn't handle being a "mom".
@mommy_maynard, 🤔🤔🤔 I wouldn't personally be messing with having babies after 40. Too many complications because of advanced maternal age. My goal is to have my kiddos all grown and out of the house before 45 so that I'm still young. 👌as if she gets any say in when you have your kids or how many you have 😂 she can take a seat
Thanks ladies. I've calmed down a lot. Now I can't help but laugh at her lol.
She didn't want us having kids before we were 40. Lmao! Plus she walked out on her two boys before they were out of diapers and there's only a year and a half between them. And she claims to have done everything on her own. Someone is delusional. Lmao! @christimary0
I would have LOST it, how rude! Do what you want and enjoy these precious moments.
@ryliannsmommy, I am livid. Lmao! But seriously omg I can't believe she said that and after I told her I planned on trying a long term birth control after this baby. Nope that's not good enough for her. Need to be permanent. Ugh! I could have called her every name in the book haha but I just walked away.
Haha I'm pregnant with #4... and my mil said "thank you" lol
but your body, your life. I cannot stand when people act like that!