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OPINIONS/ADVICE PLEASE 😔😩😡 How do I tell family to leave me the fuck alone? My family, one relative in particular (she's…

OPINIONS/ADVICE PLEASE 😔😩😡

How do I tell family to leave me the fuck alone? My family, one relative in particular (she's a distant cousin or aunt or something but I just call her Maricela), is extremely overbearing and makes me not want to take my son around her anymore. Last night we went over to her for dinner. My son, Mateo was really fussy when we arrived because he needed a nap after a long day out. I put my son down after nursing him and he fell asleep. I warned everyone to leave him alone so that he could get in a good nap (and in the meantime I could eat dinner). I swear as soon as Mateo started stirring a little (not even twenty minutes later) Maricela picks him up. Like didn't I say leave him alone? He wasn't even fully awake, he would have fallen back asleep! I didn't get to finish my dinner because he got fussy again and wanted to fall back asleep. I let that one slide... Later on, Mateo started crying while I was in the restroom. It was time to nurse him, but I wasn't really worried because I knew Derek (my fiancé, Mateo's dad) could handle it and keep him calm until I was done, so I took my time. When I come out of the restroom a couple minutes later, Mateo is still crying and is getting more and more upset 🤔 I come out to see my fiancé asking my aunt for the baby so he could calm him down, but she refuses to give him to Derek and walks away. I chase her down, ask her for my child and she ignores me. I told her twice to give him to me! Her phone starts ringing and she fumbles to answer it while still holding my screaming child. I was livid. Seriously bitch give me my child!!! 😡😤😡😤 Wtf is wrong with her? My dad finally took him from her and gave him to me. She wants to see and be around him all the time, but this kind of shit keeps happening. There has been other times when Mateo is crying his eyes out and she won't give him to Derek, instead she'll wake me up out of a dead sleep or go knocking on the bathroom door. Like hello?!? Derek is Mateo's daddy, he can calm him down just as much as I can. Her attitude is starting to rub off on my my mom too. I don't understand why they feel Derek and I cannot take care of our own son.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full…

It happened....? 2.5 years and today was the day he heard me fart. I thought I could crop dust him, but it came out full force. He looked at me and busted out laughing. ?

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he…

Ok, so my friend is wanting to get pregnant but..... Her fiancé does not want kids, at lease for another 3-5 years he said... so she came up with the idea to have me pee on a stick for her and show it to him so that he’ll be comfortable with not wearing a condom and finishing in her.. basically the whole idea is to make him think she’s pregnant already...... so I do this favor for her or should I tell my girl to chill? He and my husband are friends through us and he’s going to invite him over tonight and run it by him...

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just…

So over this feeling! Ever since I've had ds, OH and I have fought my mother on not wanting to give ds a dummy just cause we don't like them and find he self soothes. For the past three times my mother has had him, she has gone against our rule and given him a dummy and of course I spoke to her about it (that's all my knowledge on how many times she's done it). On Sunday we celebrated my stepfathers birthday and due to OH working I had to do it alone which isn't the thing that bothered me. The thing that bothered me was no matter what I said regarding ds I wasn't listened to. I told my mother to sit behind ds if she was going to sit him up on the floor as he hasn't got the whole balance thing down pact but she didn't and then ds falls and starts crying cause he hurt himself, I picked him up and my mother just came and took him off me! I told her he can't forward face yet as he is below the shoulder line in order to forward face but they did anyway. I get it's her first grandchild and she's excited but I never got to share the news about ds's first tooth or his first attempt at crawling to the family because she already done it. Yes I know, I probably sound petty asf! I had to repeatedly ask my mother to take me and ds home as he was tired and close to the over tired stage. On the way home ds fell asleep, luckily I was sitting beside him and looked at him cause he had fallen asleep and had his head facing down so I quickly grabbed his head and held it up till we got home.

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want…

I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning