This are gettin so stressful .. I feel like I get no help with anything .. I can do it on my own but don't say you gonna be here for me and do anything for your son when you don't do shit . Then get mad when I point it out to you like you gonna make me change what I jus said .. I'm so annoyed with everybody including with my sons father . I don't wanna be this bitter ass baby mama and say you can't see you son but damn when I come over you always on your phone or computer anyways so why even waste my time or waste my gas ?? I'm so fed up with him it makes no since .. then got the nerve to say you want me one minute then the next you wanna throw in my face the reasons we not together ? I'm over it .. my baby was not planned but I wish I would've chose his father wisely cuz this was not a good choice
Let him be a dad alone, my sister use to say the same thing about her son father. A man can learn to be a father just like a mother has no choice but to learn to be a mother. Unless you think he's going to hurt your kid, which I doubt bc your taking the kid around, take the time to yourself nothing to stress about.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Racial nickname
I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Locking your doors
We are having a discussion on one of my birth boards from my older kids about locking doors and security alarms. There are many of us (me included) who do not lock our doors at home (I actually don't even have a deadbolt on my house and we don't lock it when we leave either), and others who think that's totally weird. So what do you do? Do you lock your doors? Do you think it's weird that people don't?

Me on the left my son on the right. everyone says we look exactly the same ,but I don't think so!! what do you ladies think????
Oh I want to that @nwhite0823 but I breast feed and I jus can't ever pump enough for him to spend long periods of time with him plus go to daycare .. he does spend the night some weekends tho ..