OK so the babies dad's side of the family(constructed by his mom) wants to come out to Cali in December to meet me, and they eventually want me to meet his son...
I feel like I don't know them and I'm moving on so why get to know them.
His mom has an different motive though. And she's involving her family..She's just trying to get us back together (oh hell no)lol
I am NOT looking forward to it, all I wanna do is move on and take care of my unborn kids, and patiently wait for baby Jesus to send me a husband. lol
even though I agreed to meet them, I'm dreading it and I really don't want to .. I guess this is a rant.
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you don't ever have to do something you don't want to do unless you're ready.
I'm going to. I just don't want to.. LOL I totally understand where you're coming from, I just want the past in the past.
I think you should meet them so that they can be a part of your children's lives. I know you don't want to but the extra support might really help
@luckygir744, so you don't think im wrong for feeling this way? I don't wanna sound like a bitch but I really don't care to meet them
go off your intuition! if you feel like you really don't want it to happen then don't let it. please don't ever be afraid to just say no thank you...even if it is family.
if you feel like you're not ready to meet them then don't. if there's a chance of it happening at a later date then go for that if you're comfortable... and if you're gonna do that should find out a little more history on them before inviting them into your home.