Okay rant may be not over. I also wanted to add #stopdadshamimg Sure, dad is probably not going to do things exactly the way you'd prefer them but it does not mean he is incapable. let dad help!! sure there are certain circumstances in which this is not feasible (I have first hand experience in this area) but you should always give dad a chance. We learn by mistakes. I totally get how scary it is to trust another human with your baby but a chance is a chance. Dad will feel more comfortable around baby, form a better bond, and help out more willingly.