@cjolove93, I'm in the same situation.l with loving him and wanting to keep our family together. My fiancé asked my brothers girlfriend for a picture of her boobs after she had a boob job and then told her that he had a crush on her. My therapist said that him always accusing me of cheating on him was his own insecurities and cheating personality putting it all onto me. So you're right in thinking he is deflecting. I mean that may not be the case with you but she said that was what most people are doing in situations like this. I have tried to get him to go to couples therapy with me but he never says anything. I would sit down with him and talk to him and tell him how you feel about him thinking you are always cheating and if he brushes it off and acts like he isn't doing anything wrong tell him that if he wants to keep his family together that you want to go to couples therapy.

I am torn because I love him and I never want to be responsible for Eleanor not having her family together growing up, but this jerk was texting another chick pictures of our daughter just minutes after my c section. I feel like if he's spending so much time trying to make it seem like I am up to something because he knows he is and he is deflecting the situation. @kathale95

I know exactly how you feel!! My fiancé and I have been together for 4 years and he's always been that way. I should have left by now but when we started dating I was 17 and stupid and now we have a son and I want to keep our family together. It has gotten so bad that I have developed depression and anxiety and have to go to therapy. Stay strong and so what's best for you and baby. You can't take care of baby the way you need to if you are always worried about his ego and making him feel secure while draining yourself mentally.