Sooo I no this is totally silly but have no other way to rant. I have my oh friends on Facebook and of course one of them is best friends with his ex and keep posting pictures of memory's and they go back to when they was together I can't help myself but read the comments and it just makes me feel not so special as it seems they had something good going even no she used him for his money and then cheating on him. normally I wouldn't be botherd but it's really got me upset and thinking we don't have what they did it's not going to last because I'm not good enough yes I'm loyal and honest person but as for the body and looks I do not have that. I no ppl with read this and think what an idiot but need to let it out. That's his past and of course I have one to but iv been in solid relationships as he has had many female friends with extras no one thought we matched but as we both have said we dint expect to fall in love with each other. What is wrong with me 🙁
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Thank you @ttcrainbowbaby your right we no how feel about each other it shouldn't matter about the other stuff I guess I was a bit emotional n took it to heart it's never really botherd me b4. We are happy and having a family I should just keep telling myself that 😊. Thank you x
@mummy2leo There's different types of love hun and yours seems strong. dDon't let some pictures on Facebook make you insecure.
I have a friend who was very showy when she used to be in relationships. Very into looks and clothing. Couldn't really look passed that. She was constantly taking pics and posting on social media. Constantly talking about how 'in love' she was. Those relationships didn't last. How could it? That's not what love is. She's married now and her husband is just a regular guy and she's very happy. She actually just had a baby recently.
Thank you @tg123456789 and @x-zoe-x . I spoke to him at work he's reassured me said we can talk about it when he's home if it's getting to me that much he told me nit to worry he loves me for me. I feel so silly tho and don't no how the talk will go but I guess ur right @x-zoe-x it's better to talk about it. And yer he said he loves me and not to worry @tg123456789 x x
if your still feeling insecure its worth bringing up thats what u would do i talk to my partner about everything and i always say thays the best way instesd of you not talking and it eating.you up @mummy2leo xxx
just looking at the picture of u both he will think he is lucky to have you. and ur together now and as uve saod u dont just love each other your in love xxx
It's the 2nd time I've brought it up with him @x-zoe-x and he just goes mad because it's the past and his answer is our relationship is different and he is glad it is but I don't get half the love he sheared with his ex and it makes me feel shit like I'm not doing enough. I no he would be a right ass if it wad the other way arnd but I would be happy to delete as it's the past my ex was horrible so there's not much that would come up amd i wouldnt want anything on there that was with him and b4 that was my son's dad for a long time but that's my son's dad he nos how I felt about him xx
this is a completely normal feeling! i would feel exacly the same you tried talking to him about it? im sure he would feel the same if it was the other way round! chin up though he loves you for you and thats all that matters not the past xxx
@mummy2leo You're right. Focus on you both as a couple and the baby. Don't worry about it hun. Pregnancy is a patchy ride. You're bound to be emotional.