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carla
Over done it to day and think me and the oh r abit moody I said one little thing and he snapped at me and said i was starting iv stormed off to bed now and he things he can just come up and be all loving. How's about go back downstairs and leave me to be emotional b4 that f's u off aswell because God forbid I cry over a raised voice. Can't wait to get rid of those bloody pregnancy hormones I can't keep anything in. wish he would try and understand how much iv been struggling the past 2 weeks n be a bit more sensitive 😡😤😢
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ttcrainbowbaby

@mummy2leo Honestly I have to say that when I'm beig hormonal even if I don't realise at the time, I do later on. last night was not my fault. Makes me question who the hormonal one is. lol. 😂 He's being extra nice today so I can see he knows it was his fault. I'm just happy it didn't escalate. With my hormones as they are, I know how easy it coukd have been. Kinda proud of myself for walking away rather than giving him what he obviously wanted. 😊

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ttcrainbowbaby

@mummy2leo Honestly I have to say that when I'm beig hormonal even if I don't realise at the time, I do later on. last night was not my fault. Makes me question who the hormonal one is. lol. 😂 He's being extra nice today so I can see he knows it was his fault. I'm just happy it didn't escalate. With my hormones as they are, I know how easy it coukd have been. Kinda proud of myself for walking away rather than giving him what he obviously wanted. 😊

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mummy2leonskyla

It's just not healthy for us @ttcrainbowbaby I'm nit saying the men have it easy dealing with our pregnancy hormones but I think it's common sense to no its not going to be easy and to expect emotional issues. But sometimes they are very selfish and don't realise how they can make a women feel. I think it's best at this point to just have ur space in those times so the fight dosnt escalate. Glad he came and said sorry. My oh did a 2nd time and I gave in needed cuddles lol but it's been a better morning xx

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ttcrainbowbaby

Had a similar situation with my husband last night 4 am ish. 😒 We were already in bed so I ended up walking off and sleeping on the couch. After 2 miscarriages you'd think he'd learn. We've often had huge fights and prior to this pregnancy discussed it numerous times and decided together that if one of us raises our voice the other would walk away but it seems like he was itching for a fight. Even as I begged him to let it go, he just got louder and louder so I defo needed to leave. He came and apologised after half hr of calming down but at that point I was like you. Needed my space and time to deal. I did let it go coz I don't want any added stress this pregnancy but why are men such d#$*s? It's so stupid that no matter how much pregnancy material they read they don't get the issue of hormones and stress. It seems he adds to it on purpose.

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mummy2leonskyla

Thank you @suzie80

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suzie80

Awww Hun hugs

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