hey ladies :) i have a question..so my family and my s/o family makes "jokes" about me leaving my baby for a while so "i " can go out. i dont feel comfortable leaving my baby with anyone yet. hes only 3 months. so my question is... when was the first time any of u left your little one for a few hours? ...i feel like ppl forget hes my FIRST and hes ONLY 3 months ...
Starting TWW. Anyone else? I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Do any of you mom's only feel comfortable with your mom watching your babies? That's how I feel and this is my first baby and he is 4 months old..
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So idk if I’m an asshole for thinking this but a girl I used to go to school with is having her 3rd kid and she’s planning a baby shower and she had one with her other two. I feel like a baby shower is something you do with ur first pregnancy. I live far from my family so I didn’t have one but i did have a baby registry and I’m not even doing that with this pregnancy. Idk I just feel like 3 baby showers is a lot! Especially when she gets things handed to her. Idk maybe I’m an ass for thinking that
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Amber·
Мама двоих (младенец)
My MIL lives on the east coast....so she doesn't really have a chance to babysit, but if she did live here.....I dunno lol I don't see her paying as close attention to my kids as my own mom does! I would probably wait until my baby was at least a year
natalie pearce·
yea MIL can be hard to deal with sometimes ! yea i will only take time when im ready otherwise i wouldnt enjoy myself out ! thanks ladies !!
Natasha Benscoter·
Your not alone! My love is 3mths as well and I've reluctantly left him with my husband! And that was only for a maybe 20 mins!lol He is also my third! Noone can take care of your little like you can!
Taking time for yourself away from baby is important... but do it at your own pace!!! congrats and have fun!!
Tara·
my lil one is 3mths and has been left only with my husband for a few hrs. I trust my mom but my MIL wants to babysit and thinks I will let her .. but I won't. she can't even walk around with my lil one longer than 5mins bc "she's heavy" .. and she forgets things often. When I do leave her with my mom, I'm sure I will have to fight the MIL as to why she is not trusted.
pinkfulskies·
I actually haven't and my son is 10 months. call me paranoid. lol.
natalie pearce·
yea i completely trust my mom too!! :p but if i let her babysit than other ppl will expect me to leave him with them as well (like my MIL ) n im not ready. @brynsmommie lol it makes me feel over protective and crazy
Amber·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Lol I did it at a few weeks old with both of my kids but my mom is like an extension of me and I fully trusted her, the only person they stay with is my mom! I trust her more than my own husband LOL