My husband came clean and told me he had slept with another women while I was 8 months pregnant ...…

Leave him, you deserve SO MUCH better. Believe that there is better. He's disgusting and doesn't belong in your life..

😏 sucks you going thru this .. At the same time is your desicion to leave him or not nobody can tell you , you will deside when to put an end . But idk wat to tell you girl is kind of fucked up of him atleast he admits tobit (doesn't change anything but yea) when you have kids with someone is diff then just dating .. But at the end you have the choice

I found out my husband cheated on me with my bestfriend of 16 years when my PPD got really bad... over time and hard work, we got through it. He didn't come to me and tell me I found out through a note book she left at my house. Try counseling, talking to someone. Don't give up. There is hope! Everything will work out the way it's supposed to love, message me if you ever need to talk :)

seams like he disnt love you from tje start..also seams like your not gonna leave him..disnt leave him the first time..its just gonna keep happening..over..and over.and over again. .your just letting him hurt you..and now whatever you choose to do wont just affect you..but your baby too..he might not know whats going on yet but he feels it amd si hope you dont take it out on baby

..grustration amd anger..when your overwhelmed

to be honest u need to leave him just cause u have a child u shouldn't stay with him cause if he cheat once he is going to do it again and if u cheated on him 9 out of 10 he would mostlikey leave u thats how most guys are

Im not going to say you should leave him or stay. I will say this at least he came clean to what look like all his wrong doings. When I was pregnant with my first child I myself made a mistake and cheated on my now husband. It took alot of hard work on the both of us to get where we are now. I realized my mistake and wanted to make things right. Maybe he is ready to grow up and make things right because he is a father now and realizes he needs to grow up. Im sorry this is happening to you. Wish you all the best.

Oh my gosh. I'm so sorry...I can only imagine what you're going through. If you need anything don't hesitate to message me

I will say though once a cheater always a cheater. Being cheated on is the worst feeling

@akm2396, I will also say I can't say stay or leave. My SO came clean to me as well a couple weeks ago. He said after telling me that it made him feel like he could tell me anything. Yeah, I was hurt and questioned our relationship. We worked through it and are still together today. If you feel like you guys might can fix it try.

This might sound harsh but a broken home is better than an unhappy one trust me. I had my now 3yr old son in a broken home for a yr and he now screams in terror if you only slightly raise your voice... 😞

I can say from experience he's gonna do it again and again.. you're gonna spend the rest of your life with him wondering if he's being faithful and honest and you'll never know. You're gonna constantly be stressed about it and wondering if he's being truthful. Even when things are going good it will still be in the back of your mind. He's already done it more than once- get out while you can and stay strong. It's gonna hurt but remember it's for the best. There's something better out there for you