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clare·Мама троих детей

WARNING!! RANT ALERT!

loves being sat here bored out my tree while the OH is playing on the computer and chatting on a mic to people online! pisses me right off! like yeah you may be on the computer but I'm here too! why not keep the mic off and at least chat to me or something. Having to listen to one way conversations and him having a laugh with them!

I know it's not all the time but it's a bloody lot! if we ain't watching something then it's him on here and I've had enough of it to be honest! feel like snapping that God damn game in half. he would be well annoyed then wouldn't he. no other little virtual reality world to disappear into! some times during the day and at night! ARGH!!!! I'm at boiling point at the minute. with things that he is doing or not doing! I'm so annoyed with him at the moment! he went out a few weeks ago and was gone for like 34 hours ish! at a friends getting wasted! no word from him in most of that time!! being annoyed and worrying my arse off if he is okay, while I'm at home with a teething 1 year old my 12 year old son and his 12 year old cousin! needing to go shopping the next day and get other stuff done! you know that I've not been feeling great lately and struggling to get around at the moment because of the pain!

the fact that I'm sick of living in a shit tip all the time and doing everything myself or it doesn't get done.

I'm worrying about coping with 2 children so young and close together.

Yes I'm moody as hell at the moment, I'm quick to anger. every thing is irritating me! I'm not happy in myself and I just feel totally not myself. I dont feel very happy i guess!

Sorry ladies if not just read all that. I probably sound completely mental to you who have read it! I just needed to let some shit out!

13.10.2016

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gillz_90
Gillian·Мама двоих (8 лет, 17 лет)

My partners the exact same with his bloody Xbox it does my head in!! That's the first thing he does when he gets in from work after saying hi to me and Our daughter than headphones are on!! Even on a. Weekend he could sit on it from the minute he gets up till the time he goes to bed but I just go on and on and on about doing something till he eventually comes off...could u imagine if it was us that was like that and they were say bored shitless watching us play it 👊🏼 x

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tg123456789
Terri·Мама двоих (8 лет, 20 лет)

everyday!!!!!!!

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tg123456789
Terri·Мама двоих (8 лет, 20 лет)

this was my ex before my current partner and i put up with it for 6 years untill one day i just had enough and threw the ps4 and the gay little bluetooth headset in bin along with changing locks and calling it a day on a 6yr relationship (he didnt work just sat on that with heating on full wack and been a selfish prick..

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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

I could never watch my husband play on his games it's so boring! When he has his gaming nights I'll go upstairs & watch TV or read a book or get into a project in the dining room lol. It's healthy to have your own hobbies & do things separately but if it's every day then you have a problem. We have to compromise in relationships. He needs to be willing to talk about it otherwise what's the point in being together if your never together you know??

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clarebear83
clare·Мама троих детей

Yeah you are right but it always just seems to end up in arguments!we need to talk! we don't really spend time together to tell you the truth apart from watching stuff like series at night. Yeah I wouldn't mind that a few nights a week. Sometimes it doesn't bother me but other times I sit here listening to him and all the innuendos and things. I dont know if it's jealousy cos he's obviously having fun entertained on there or that he seems to always be having a laugh and I'm sat here feeling like I wish I could just escape! Sorry! I just feel quite hopeless and helpless at the moment! don't quite know what to do with myself! xx

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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

Sounds like he needs a kick up the arse and reminded he's a man and a father not a teenage boy. I couldn't be dealing with that. My husband was a massive gamer when we met and while we were dating. Which was fine all the time we weren't living together. Once he became a Dad he realised there's more important things in life. Maybe have a chat and set out certain days he can game then the rest of time time he needs to be with you. Helping or just spending time with you. My husband has 2 gaming nights a week which I'm fine with. Gaming during the day when the kids are awake is a big no no. Never going to happen.

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