So I've been thinking whether I should use Epidural or just go natural when I go into labor & deliever... what are y'all suggestions??? #NewMommy #DueNovember
keep a open mind. I wanted to go natural but kept my options open and tried not to have high expectations. good thing I didn't I had a 4 day labor and 2 failed epidurals only thing that help manage the pain was a hot shower and narcotics so I could sleep for a hr at least. for sure practice breathing. I didn't know how and my Dr showed me and eventually I zoned out till I had to push.
I'd suggest keeping your mind open instead of deciding beforehand. Just go as long as you can naturally and then let your body decide what you need. Everyone is different but in my experience, epidurals can slow down your labor especially if you get it too early. I've done both and there's good and bad with both. Research natural labor and practice breathing, it helps a ton just to prepare to get as far as you can. Good luck! :)
mannnn... that pain was soo bad. i had to get the epidural. gave me the shivers after my baby came out but I'm glad I got it.
I had an epidural with my oldest but didn't even make it to the hospital with my second son since he was born in the back of the ambulance lol
I preferred an epidural but after a while of labor I started getting back labor so it didn't matter if I had an epidural or not I was in pain just not having contractions
I did both. I prefer epidural , natural hurt so badly I couldn't enjoy my labor at all.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Thanks mommies, I will go natural until I can't take no more. This just my first & I'm kind of scared lol.