Okay I need opinions . Do you ladies think it's selfish of me to not want anyone to come see me in the hospital , and wait until we get home. My husband really wants his dad to come but I don't feel comfortable with it because I'm gonna be basically half naked all the time , bleeding like crazy and sore . I don't think it's unreasonable to make people wait until I'm home but my husband is mad at me now because I don't want his dad at the hospital . What do you ladies think ?
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Thank you guys ! I'm just going to stick with my decision then .
I agree with you. we made people wait. I really didn't want to be bothered. it's really not that unrealistic.
I agree with you. I wish I would have told people to wait. you are so drained after birth and it's suppose to be time for you to bond and come together with your husband and be a family. they can wait until you get home!
It's about you, do what makes you comfortable, not them.
I feel the same. but because of my situation, without visitors I'll be completely alone. lol. but If I didn't have such anxiety I would just say stay away until I'm home. lol