So this is long... Sorry in advance.. I have been with the father for my kids for almost 3 years now. We have a daughter together and are now expecting a son. We are no longer in a relationship but are living together. He started to put his hands on me when I was pregnant with my daughter. I never told anyone I just always accepted his apologies. He then got into an argument with my mom and wanted to fight her. I still didn't do anything. We moved into our own place in June and he thought I was cheating on him with one of my coworkers.
I do talk to this coworker often. I'm not gonna lie. I had a lot of pain and I wanted to be free of him even though I'm still in love with him. A month ago he saw I was still texting him and he threw all of my belongings off the balcony in our apartment. He clearly has a lot of anger.
I came back and things have been peaceful even after he told me he slept with someone after that whole incident.
Well tonight we got into it again even though we aren't together about the same guy. He busted my lip and gave me bruises on my wrist as well as ripping my shirt while trying to get me out of the house. There is a huge hurricane I'm not going anywhere. Anyway he comes out and apologizes and then quickly turns it on me saying I'm trying to play the victim. I honestly want to run away and be free of all of it. I make enough to support myself and my kids. It's just much easier said than done. Just had to get that off my chest. Sorry it's a little scattered. Don't really have anyone who I can speak to about things like this.
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oh my! you need a support group. if you stay with him, he might reallt hurt you and/or the kids. it sounds like he might be bipolar
awww mama you definitely need to get out of that situation ASAP! You have no reason to stay even if he is the father of your children. He doesn't treat you right at all, and to lay his hands on you, is the biggest no no ever! You don't need your children to be exposed to that kind of abuse. you can survive and live a happy stress free, abuse free life without him. Do it not only for yourself but for your kids. Don't listen to his apologies, dont acept them. you already know he's just going to keep doing it again. This is not even healthy for your pregnancy mama. take care of you and your babies.
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You need to leave! Don't ever let a man put his hands on you and you think that's okay!!! Is he your dad? Your mom? No! Get the hell out. Your kids do not deserve to go through that and they will grow up thinking it's okay to treat a woman this way and that's not what u want ur kids to think. U make enough to support yourself nothing is stopping you hun! Pleaseeee get out or kick him out clearly you don't need him! Look at how u justified him being upset about u texting this other guy, that is still no reason whatsoever for him to put his hands on you and you can text whoever the hell you want if u guys aren't together. Please honey protect yourself don't ever let a man treat you this way.