You know I know I really shouldn't post my business on Social media. But, I was just wondering if someone has been through what I'm going through. My Boyfriends, Sister in Law wants to try to tell me what to do all the time. Even with my own kid how I'm feeding her and she's formula fed and I did breastfeed her for a month. But it's always something and she said being a stay at home mom isn't a job I'm just so tired of being pushed around so I deleted her on FB. Cause I'm just over it! She always acts jealous of me over everything I've tired to be nice all I can but I had all I could take. And now all I can do is cry because am I being wrong about the situation? I need help. And, someone to talk to.
I hope not and I kinda hope some of his side isn't mad at me. But she deleted me once before too. Yes it is a job I haven't really done anything today cause I've been upset but I need to start doing something. I do need someone who will support me. I just can't believe it. And, it wasn't like I was saying it to her. But she has done so many things wrong on Facebook and I've always tired to be the bigger person.
I don't think your wrong! You have to stand up for what is right for YOUR FAMILY! If breastfeeding didn't work out, so what. The child is eating! And being a stay at home mom IS a job. You take of a child, cook, clean, wash clothes, dishes, entertain,etc...Don't let no one tell you otherwise! You simply don't need someone belittling you! You need someone to support and encourage you! I'm here if you want to talk!😘
I know she is jealous because she has to have her Mom be the Nanny when they both go to work.
You know I have just tired so hard to be nice for so long I know I still have to be around her. But, I don't have to like her. She always disagree with me about everything. I just felt like I had no other choice she always has to say something toward me. My Mom was like now that you unfriended her she got what she wanted. Its not that I'm just tired of it. When I've tired all I could. It just really upsets me and no one else seems to care. I have a problem with Depression and anxiety too. And, I can only take so much of someone and I already told my boyfriend about it. He's like at the end of the day she's still going to be your Daughter and things won't change and not to pay attention to her. The issue was it was just constant!
I don't blame you for blocking her. My fiancé's sister in law is the same way. I do something or say something about raising my child she has to disagree. I just tell her "well, from my research and what I believe this is how I do it". But I also consider the source. I'd never want to parent like her. And I know people have let her know her short comings and that she is a bad mom. So I don't pay her any mind. You're doing the best you can. Some people are jealous, feel guilty or something. So they feel the need to bring you down. I think blocking her is a great idea!
Now my BF is saying that isn't the answer is immature for me to have deleted her?