been in labor for 36hrs.....I'm so tired and starving to death....bd keeps complaining about how he's so tired he's having a hard time wanting to stay in the room w me.....idk why he doesn't want to stick it out....I just have a feeling that if he leaves I will end up giving birth w no one here.....smh...I'm so ready to be done now...maybe he doesn't realize that being in pain and only sleeping for 6 hrs of the 36 hrs and being bed ridden is also stressful and tiring but Ik it's for a good reason
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I completely feel you! Mine was in another state having a quarter life crisis all of my pregnancy. He came to the birth and was supportive, but every time he complained about it being another night or how he was so tired I wanted to castrate him! I wish I could say it got better post birth but I still have those moments when he makes excuses and isn't handling any of this. You got this, though! And are doing amazing! I hope you're holding your baby now!
smh thanks...I have no problem being here it's just the selfishness of him that's making me upset...like damn can he think of anyone but himself...throughout my whole pregnancy all he did was run the streets no quality time with me no bonding nothing u would think the least he would do is tough it out since he's been mentally absent my whole pregnancy
I just went though 30 hours of labor I know the feeling. I hope your baby arrives soon hun
Oh momma! Hang in there! I was in labor for 40 hours lucky my boyfriend and sister both toughed it out. We were in the hospital a whole week! I ended up in an emergency c-section at the end.
so I'm being induced so he will be here next week. he's measuring smaller . I'm 37 weeks but he's measuring 35 weeks . 😔 I'm not ready for him yet . he doesn't even have his bed yet. so that means he's going to be a preemie , I hope he doesn't stay in the nicu. on top of all that went on today smh. you know he had the nerve to call me a failure ? pssh.
Okay, mommas I need to vent to someone please..
So my fiance goes to his Co workers house (female) at 1:30pm to leave for work, they work about 55 mins from home.. she doesn't have to be there till 3pm.. and he doesn't have to start till 4pm... they usually get off at 1:30am. Now they moved it to 2:00am.. (what he says.) He doesn't get home till 4:00am.... am I wrong for wondering why it takes so long for him to get home??? I want to mention something but I know he will get real defensive about...
So torn so after BIG fight with bf he calls and is actually nice to me but I haven't made it clear to him that I'm keeping the baby . I know once I say I'm not getting an abortion he's going to put me on block again and be mean and rude . But then on the other side I have my supportive mother who is so excited about being a first time grandma and wants me to keep it and deep down I want to have my baby . I've been through a abortion and it was so horrible. Idk what to do because the two main peo...
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
yea he's still complaining not holding baby yet bc these docs wanted to force a c section and I don't need it so they stopped taking care of me and tried to send me home....I refused discharge now the head doc is saying I'm definitely in labor so now I'm waiting a final and clear decision.