ugh I am pumping every 3 hours. I'm so exhausted. I wish he would've latched on😢 I feel so defeated. I wanted to have a natural child birth and wound up having a c section. wanted to exclusively breastfeed him, and he doesn't want to latch on. I feel like I'm doing everything wrong and its making me so depressed.
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hang in there. you are doing great! you should find a good lactation consultant though.
I want to have a baby so bad and my boyfriend feels the same but says hes not financially ready...so does welfare have to be paid back?
Took this lastnight...and I'm not sure how I should feel. I've made a terrible mistake by having sex so soon after having a baby but it has made such a precious thing. I really don't want to have an abortion but my Fiancé does. I understand why he wants to go that route but I just would feel absolutely terrible about doing that. I cried all night...I really don't know what to do. PLEASE NO JUDGING IM ONLY POSTING THIS FOR SUPPORT.
Strippers.
How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
So how do you Ladies feel about birth control. I'm against it cause I want my body to do what it naturally does. I've faced infertility issues so I'm not for it but my mom feels I should be on it after I have Tyson.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
You're doing nothing wrong. Don't feel bad about the latch. Keep trying if that's what you have hope to do, but celebrate that you are able to pump and feed too. Every breastfeeding journey is different in my experience. My first didn't latch because she has a high palette, so I got a nipple shield and that made it work. My twins, one could latch, the other could not because she had low muscle tone. So I pumped for one and breastfed the other. I also always had formula on hand because, for me, it offered a back up plan if we were out and I forgot my shield or didn't have milk pumped.