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I understand miracles happen, but if you don't want a baby, use multiple forms of protection or just don't have sex if…

I understand miracles happen, but if you don't want a baby, use multiple forms of protection or just don't have sex if you choose to be irresponsible. A pregnancy app is certainly not the place to say you're praying for a miscarriage.

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

@tiffanigypsy8, she was so set on the fact that just because she had a miscarriage that she had the right to say what she did, but clearly what happened to her didn't effect her as strongly as it does some. Point blank, be responsible, or take responsibility. Lie down, you get up with fleas, or in this case a blessing even though she's taking it for granted

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

@blessed-n-proud7, will do 😊 I'm not trying to berate this girl by any means, but I feel like she absolutely hurt way more people than she's aware of. I haven't even faced the specific issue or miscarriage or infertility, my boyfriend just refuses to have another child. Right now at least, which I understand. But it just hurts me because I would glad take her unborn baby if she doesn't want him/her! I also feel bad for her son; he can't help that he was premature and "difficult" 😔

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tiffanigypsy

tiffani gypsyМама сына-младенца

She's a nutcase. I'm sure Preggie admins read the messages between us last night and were like da fuq is this girl smoking. The shit she said to me was ABSURD. 😑 talking about how it's not wrong to pray to God to kill her unborn baby because she's not responsible when it comes to sex.. Crazy.

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

Someone that runs the app messaged me and asked me for the girls user name and said she wanted to address the issue. Apparently this isn't the first time she's said this kind of thing @astoria2014 @blessed-n-proud7 @sabreycastro1996 @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom @tiffanigypsy8

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astoria2014

AstoriaМама дочки-младенца

After trying for over 2 years... finally being pregnant with TWINS then miscarrying them... I can't even hold a temper when I hear things like that!👿

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tiffanigypsy

tiffani gypsyМама сына-младенца

I couldn't hold my tongue. I see too many women TTC on her so upset about their misfortune.

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

@tiffanigypsy8, certainly not. I understand parenthood and pregnancy comes with all sorts of emotions, but some things are better left unsaid or at least said elsewhere

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tiffanigypsy

tiffani gypsyМама сына-младенца

Disrespectful. Distasteful. I can't believe it. Not the place to say something like that.

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

I personally didn't tear her down, so direct that towards the people who might have with justifiable reasoning. And yeah sure, it's an app for expressing your feelings while pregnant/planning/postpartum, but don't go on a place like this stating that you're PRAYING you lose your baby and that if that doesn't work out for you then you hope it's "not as bad as the last one" As in your last child, not your last pregnancy. I understand where you're coming from, but everything she said is extremely insensitive and could've been 100% prevented if she truly didn't want another child. @kimberlyyyy_the-preemie-mom

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kimberly_preemie-mom

Kimberly Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

I think this is an app to express all sorts of feelings. Obviously that mom (mom to be) must be very confused. I am not a horrible person. I had that thought with my first son because I was scared and a pregnancy was not what I needed. In the end I went on to have a healthy pregnancy. Instead of tearing that girl down maybe we could be supportive and let her know her negative emotions will get better and she will be excited for her pregnancy as it progresses. I'm sure she's already feeling freaked out, tearing her down will not help.

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

I know! As if saying she wishes she loses her new one wasn't enough. She's all over the place with her posts 🙄 @sabreycastro1996

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pierced-momma

Saybre Elizabeth Мама дочки-младенца

I feel like going back to her post and saying something. 😞 she said "I hope it's not as bad as the last one" ugh. smh. 😢 @makayleigh

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

I'm so sorry to hear that. I have no idea how that would feel; I'd probably be devastated @blessed-n-proud7

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makayleigh

MakaylaМама сына-младенца

I haven't personally struggled with miscarriages, but I can't imagine how hurtful it was for so many people that read it 😔 @blessed-n-proud7 @sabreycastro1996

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pierced-momma

Saybre Elizabeth Мама дочки-младенца

I had seen that to. it made me extremely upset.

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