I need help with law issues. so my ex is saying he don't wanna be at my son's birth and all this negative stuff and telling me to have fun being a whore my whole life when hes talking to other ppl not even me. and then he's saying he's moving to another state in couple weeks but saying I'm gonna have fun paying child support. he's trying to tell me hes taking my son from me when he doesn't even want him! how's this work and would he get custody? thought his name had to be on birth certificate to have rights.
they wont give him custody I talked to somebody who works for that field he has mental issues and bad anger problems. and he has charges and what not. so I'm not worried plus he hates cops and court so ik he wouldn't go through. @cubanese @babyleon @kenitra
Just dont put his name on birth certificate; he may still end up taking you to court, but if he has a record & make sure you save all the messages/voicemails where he is disrespecting you cause that can all be used against him..... I had the same situation with my first, and he got absolutely no rights what so ever! None.... But if anything he may get supervised visits if you show how unfit and disrespectful he is to you!!! && when youre in the hospital make it clear you dont want him there to go visit or anything.... Because you feel threatened.... They will keep him out and if he calls looking for you they wont give him info...
Like @cubanese said it makes no difference if his name is on the birth certificate of not, he has parental rights. But so do you. If he fights it, you will probably each have 50% custody. Doesn't matter where in the U.S. He moves, he will still have to pay child supports.
he is full of it, he can't just take your baby... don't allow him in the hospital when you have the baby, you can tell the nurses, security, front desk... come on girl don't let him scare you... sounds like he's the scared one! @mommytobe1004
he's running to another state cause he doesnt wanna go through his court and do his probation.....and he says this child isn't his has this hole pregnancy when drs have even said dates line up
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Birth Plan Rant
I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
i finally let him do it
I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that t...
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
@mommytobe1004,