I need advice so my childs father missed every dr appt he claim he had to work each time .. then he missed her birth due to the fact he was arrested the day I got induce .. she's 18 days old and he's only seen her thru a jail house visitation window 😞😞 I've moved in with my life but now I feel like I should be there for her father , you know write letters , send money or put money on the phone then I stop and think he hasn't done SHIT for me or his daughter am I wrong to feel this way?