Mommies during your pregnancy did any of you bleed after sex a little from irritation and get told…
Mommies during your pregnancy did any of you bleed after sex a little from irritation and get told to wait a week before having sex again? We did. But did anyone still have spotting even though you didn't have sex? Tomorrow makes a week and last night I noticed a little blood but I feel weird now. I was up worried if baby was okay because what woke me up was a cramp which I think was because I didn't pee for a while in the middle of the night and when I went thats when I wiped some blood. Looked like a tiny clot but it was very light. Now I don't have blood anymore and none on my liner but I feel scared if my baby is okay. My SO doesnt want to go to the ER just for them to say I'm okay but to me I don't feel right and his job wouldn't even let him leave if I did need to go thats how fucked up his boss is 😡 What made me extra scared was I was having stretching pain on my left side of my vagina and back pain. Now I don't but the stretching pain is coming back a little. I tried to drink water to see if baby will move or kick but I'm only 14 weeks still so I don't feel much. Someone just put my mind at ease😞
Savannah Valdez·
В ожидании первенца
honestly I would go in. I've had sex all through my pregnancy and never had any bleeding. & you said a small clot, idk if that's good honestly. I'd go in just to be checked, or instead of going to the er call your actual Doctor and see if they can get you in to check baby.
Morgan·
Мама троих детей
I would go in or, at the absolute least, I'd ring my doctor. If you're worried about your little one then nothing else should matter.
Delia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@savvylynn1 @phinnybinz Well I went in the first time the dr said rough sex can do that and its normal but to really only go back if I fill a pad within an hour and like i said nothing on my liner. I have no ride regardless and my drs clinic is stupid. 1 minute late and they wont see you at all. My actual dr isn't in today either. They'll just make me go to the ER. Its normal to bleed after sex my aunt had it too and was perfectly fine I just want to feel my baby at least do a tiny kick.
Delia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
And I had the clot the first time too its normal apparently.
Savannah Valdez·
В ожидании первенца
idk it's up to you how bad you wanna go see. you could ask someone for a ride, but you aren't suppose to be bleeding & cramping. that's why if they say you're bleeding and have any cramps to go in. my aunt didn't fill an entire pad and had a miscarriage. she said she barely bled at all, just spotting when she wiped , it's different for everyone. I wouldn't go by that honestly. I don't wanna scare you but you're still really early in your pregnancy. I'd go just to be safe
Delia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@savvylynn1 No one is around to give me a ride and I dont have money for an uber. Every one isn't off work until 7pm and its only 11am where I am. My mom does get off at 1 and shes picking me up to go to wic but i dont think shes going to want to stay at the er with me and i would need someone since my sons only 10 months and I cant watch him at the same time. I might ask. Idk im not cramping its the stretching of my uterus. But thats how my hospital and clinic is. they told me only come back if i fill a pad. I just felt her kick me right now like right now as I write this!! This is the 1st I've felt her kick all morning!! What scared me most was it felt like my belly went down. im not showing much but you know how your belly just feels heavy? It felt like that but im guess I was just bloated. I let out a big burp and gas when I used the bathroom last night.
Delia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
my face IS bloated too
Kalie·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@andrewsmommy, its NORMAL. Ive bled after sex a few times this pregnancy, as long as its spotting you're fine. if it continues then I would go in, your 14 weeks having a miscarriage this far along isn't likely (it does happen but usually before 12 weeks) an you would probably be bleeding a lot. just relax, lay down an watch for more blood.
Delia·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@ryliannsmommy Yeah I just never had bled after sex when I was pregnant with my son so it freaks me out. Its not red anymore it's more of like the brown discharge you gets after your period. Yeah my DR said my chances of miscarriage are low. I'm trying to stay relaxed but usually I feel a kick or 2 and I haven't since yesterday morning.