So my SO and I decided we are going to buy a house. The rent for our townhouse is breaking us. I barely have the money to put food on our table to feed my family of 4- baby boy breastfeeds🤗. We don't qualify for help, we make too much. but my rent is 800, daycare costs 550 a month, my car/ins is 417 a month. I don't understand how we don't make enough when my ex husband gets help and he and his fiance make more!!! 😐 but super excited to be making this big step with him😀.