so I need some advice, I'm currently pregnant from a man who is married with a ten year old. he says he married her because they were young and how he was raised that if you get someone pregnant you have to buckle down and be a man. now that I'm pregnant he says my child has to be a secret. no family from his side and none from myself because I have no family. I feel like my child is coming into this world like a burden from him. and I have no respect from my kids father . even worse he sleeps over his wife's house more that I'm pregnant and I got us our own place than when we were crashing on his ex girls house. I just feel like my child is getting the shit end of the stick and as a mother I feel like a piece of shit. I don't know what to do he doesn't treat me right. lives of off my minimum wage job. I have mental problems so people leaving my life causes long term trauma. so I don't know what I'd do if he weren't around . but he's not a positive influence and I'm expecting my first child.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Love doesn't have age I'm 19 & my fiance is 33 my family is good with that because he's a grown man & responsible comes home from work and I'm pregnant this is our first baby & he's supper excited cuz he always wanted a kid by the right woman... we live together in our new house he's just a great hard working guy.... I'm pretty sure if i were to be dating an 19 year old man he wouldn't be responsible matter of fact he would be out with his friends drinking doing whatever & this is why i choose wisely..... Ladies how old are you & your spouse?
my boyfriend says that our baby is gonna use his daughters old shit that I'm not allowed to buy it anything Because he's the man & what he says go , I just don't even know what to feel right now . I know he's not excited about this baby but I want to give this baby everything I possibly could cause I grew up with nothing , I'm just sad.. sorry I need to vent .
