isit a bad thing that me and my oh don't want anyone around for a few days after the baby is born. we don't mind my mum and dad coming but everyone else I want to keep at a distance as they don't bother with us normally unless I'm at my mums house so I feel kind of annoyed that everyone's like I can't wait for cuddles! but like hello you have another niece you don't bother with or come to see.. it actually made me cry last night and I can see it annoys my oh.
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@spanishprincess94, we are 100% the same. I can't be bothered with anyone, but most people will respect and understand that. And if they don't, then who cares. Your baby, your decision! Xx
I totally get what you mean hun. Me and my husband live alone and barely any of my family ever come over coz we end up seeing each other when I go over to theirs or my mums. Some actually say 'when you have a baby we'll come over all the time'. Uhmmm.... you don't come now when I'm free and have the time and energy to host you. Why the hell do you think I'd want you coming over when I'm busy raising a young baby?
@saraelisa, thank you,you've all helped make my decision alot easier xx
You know regarding the labour, this is the only thing I'm thinking of? I will be quite adamant so if you need your space do it. Don't worry about anyone else, they will get to see you and baby eventually. It's your time to be asking what's best for you and baby. Anyone has a problem let them deal with it xx @spanishprincess94
Thanks girls it just gets to me we lived with my mum and dad when we had sienna and she was spoilt now we have our own place the only people that tend to come over is my mum and dad. So much for family huh? xx
No hun! I felt the same way. Also people should know you've been waiting to see this baby 9 months (or longer for some people) You need time to adjust and bond xx
it's your baby and if you want to be on your own with baby and your oh for few days or whatever, you do it! next baby I have hopefully we will have our own place and I'll be locking doors and not letting anyone in, we live with oh parents so we had visitors straight away and it pissed me off because I didn't bond with Dylan properly and now he's so spoilt because he was always picked up and stuff, do what you feel is best and don't stress over it!! xx
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