isit a bad thing that me and my oh don't want anyone around for a few days after the baby is born. we don't mind my mum and dad coming but everyone else I want to keep at a distance as they don't bother with us normally unless I'm at my mums house so I feel kind of annoyed that everyone's like I can't wait for cuddles! but like hello you have another niece you don't bother with or come to see.. it actually made me cry last night and I can see it annoys my oh.
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@spanishprincess94, we are 100% the same. I can't be bothered with anyone, but most people will respect and understand that. And if they don't, then who cares. Your baby, your decision! Xx
I totally get what you mean hun. Me and my husband live alone and barely any of my family ever come over coz we end up seeing each other when I go over to theirs or my mums. Some actually say 'when you have a baby we'll come over all the time'. Uhmmm.... you don't come now when I'm free and have the time and energy to host you. Why the hell do you think I'd want you coming over when I'm busy raising a young baby?
@saraelisa, thank you,you've all helped make my decision alot easier xx
You know regarding the labour, this is the only thing I'm thinking of? I will be quite adamant so if you need your space do it. Don't worry about anyone else, they will get to see you and baby eventually. It's your time to be asking what's best for you and baby. Anyone has a problem let them deal with it xx @spanishprincess94
Thanks girls it just gets to me we lived with my mum and dad when we had sienna and she was spoilt now we have our own place the only people that tend to come over is my mum and dad. So much for family huh? xx
No hun! I felt the same way. Also people should know you've been waiting to see this baby 9 months (or longer for some people) You need time to adjust and bond xx
it's your baby and if you want to be on your own with baby and your oh for few days or whatever, you do it! next baby I have hopefully we will have our own place and I'll be locking doors and not letting anyone in, we live with oh parents so we had visitors straight away and it pissed me off because I didn't bond with Dylan properly and now he's so spoilt because he was always picked up and stuff, do what you feel is best and don't stress over it!! xx
Solmari....here's my upgrade that you wanted to see. I don't ever wear it. It stays in our safe.
I find it pretty hilarious how people who have shown their true colors on social media snake away, delete the posts that outed them and come back on social media like nothing happened. Why do that, you outed yourself, so stay out. We still see you boo boo...
Would it bother you if your boyfriend or husband liked other girls photos on social media? Asking for a friend. Just want to see what other woman have to say about it. My advice to her was I don't think it is right for him to do that, but everyone acts differently about it.
Due date
How likely are you to actually give birth on your due date, especially with your first kid? I don't want him to come on his exact due date because I don't want him to share a birthday with a certain someone.
I don't mean to come off as an asshole, but it bothers me when a mother doesn't try to breastfeed, for stupid reasons like "oh I don't want my boobs to get saggy" or they assume a baby will sleep through the night if they're formula fed. NO, it doesn't work like that. At least TRY. 🤷🏻♀️
not at all, just let everyone know you want the first few weeks to yourself it's your baby. xx