My husband thinks it'll be best for him to basically move to a town nearly 4 hours away to go to school and him come down to visit me and our daughter every 2 weeks on the weekend only to not pay for someone to watch our daughter while I work(my mom and mother in law watch for right now) I understand day care is extremely expensive and a babysitter is almost just as expensive but being away from my husband that long just isn't okay when we have a choice. it would be different if he was in the military but he's not so do you guys think im wrong? should I let him do his thing while I stay here with free child care or do you guys think struggling together but at least were together is better?