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Ciara
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#pregnancystory PLEASE NO BASHING!!! at 14, a month away from turning 15. I felt really different. My boobs were sore to…

#pregnancystory

PLEASE NO BASHING!!!

at 14, a month away from turning 15. I felt really different. My boobs were sore to touch, my period wasn't coming. I didn't want to believe it, but I knew something was up. so i bought a test with my friend. We went back to her house I peed on it and we both sat in the bath room together. I made her look, I didn't want to see. she looked and she said "Oh my God, Ciara" and I knew exactly what it said...she followed with "What are you going to do?" well that's a good question haha. I know I was young. I was irresponsible. but I grew up, I never pawned my child off into someone else. he became my world!

4 years go by and I'm 19 (: in July I got my IUD taken out since it moved. I got put on the pill. I set my alarm to take it at work each night. I was doing super good! if I missed a pill, I didn't have sex. Then I go to pick up December pills and they told me my insurance won't pay for it so my total will be $100 some dollars. I said screw that and walked out. my mom called her insurance and got it taken care of. They were going to send me a 3 month supply. I had enough for a few more days...i received them on a Friday. We had my boyfriend's surprise birthday party Saturday. Monday came and when I woke up my boobs were extremely sore but they usually got like that when I was getting my period. but then I realized I'm way past due for my period! I didn't even notice. so i took rhe test that I had from a previous scare. And it quickly came back as positive. I texted my boyfriend and said happy birthday..im pregnant! hahaha. he was excited to have his first biological kid. but asked if I was 100% sure because he was told he couldn't have kids. so i went to the store and grabbed two more boxes one digital and one reg. and they all came back positive. our baby is now a year old. I had her when I was 20.

I may be a young mom but I love my babies more than anything in this world.

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adaraa126

MckaylaМама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)

it does happen..but as i said there are plenty of people my age or older who do the same thing, just keep proving them wrong!

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ciaramarie

CiaraМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

And thank you (:

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ciaramarie

CiaraМама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

@adaraa126, I know age has nothing to do with how well you parent but I know some feel that every young mom is a bad mom and doesn't care about their kid.

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adaraa126

MckaylaМама двоих (4 года, 10 лет)

Age has nothing to do with it, i have seen plenty of successful young moms. I have also seen plenty of people in their 30s who shouldnt be parents. keep up the good work.

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ktwins188

KassandraМама двоих (младенец)

(:

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