you know what i get you so much! I've always been treated differently too than my other siblings. it's 13 of us and I'm the baby of the family..my mom passed when I was 7 and then my sister passed a year after ...the rest of the family just ignored me . sad isn't it but it's not really sad just things we have to experience in order to grow from it. don't give up on your mom just yet. tell her you love her very much but she acting like an asshole and that your gonna harass the shit out of her until she comes to her senses lol..well maybe you shouldn't say the S word to your mom but in another way perhaps. but do it only for you. if it's worth fighting for a relationship with your mom than yes it's gonna be hard but when it's meant to be for whatever way this situation turns out then at least you can say you put up one hell of a fight and move forward. sometimes we have to become the parents of parents...so when they step off their path we are there to guide them back and tell them hey your stepping over to my path again please stay on your side of the road 😊

@luckygir744, my brother was murdered also, last year. And I tried helping both my parents but idk. My dad just wants me to be happy. And my mom thinks I'm unfit. I always offered to do stuff with her but she'd always blow me off and since her kicking me out she's been a lot more active which makes me feel like I'm the problem. People tell me I've always been treated differently from my other siblings. And my brother always defended me so now that he's gone it's like I have no actual tie to my family. And if I told my mom this she'd just dismiss me and tell me that I am wrong.

not trying to tell you how to live your life I would just like to give you some advice. you love your mother very much I can tell ...even though she might have kicked you out go back and talk to her again. she needs your help!

sounds like she's going through an emotional breakdown and haven't fully recovered from losing her son. not excusing her actions because we all all accountable for or own shit. people just tend to deal with pain In their own ways I guess. my dad went all military Sgt on us when my sister was murdered. I wasn't allowed to really leave the house or sit on the front porch some of my brother's and sister's got kicked out. I wished I would

have known about about him hurting over it back then. I could have helped my dad cope with the pain.

@luckygir744, I told her when she first kicked me out that the house didn't feel like a home to me anymore and she just started accusing me of using her. So she just doesn't listen to what I'm actually saying and hearing what she wants to hear.

have you tried talking to your mom about how you feel?

i know what your going threw... im going threw that with my mom right now to.

@carlitojrmami, we've always been on and off but now we're just horrible. @mum2logi I'm not sure either. That's just my mother's words. I was staying at her house after delivery because the place I was staying at was being debugged and I told her last night I was going back and she just lost it.

I lost my sister, I know how bad it sucks. my mother and I have never been on good terms.. but I don't see why this would make you think you're a bad mom or need to be in jail..?

I'm not close with my mom either😔