the father of my baby is a drug addict and ran me over. it ended up breaking my neck and rib and that's how I found out I was pregnant as well. I thought things would get better and took him back. I thought if he could get off the drugs everything would be okay and since he was an eight-year veteran I thought he deserved a chance to get better. he got violent with me again and then he ended up running off with my vehicle and I've been without since. I know what you mean about not being able to find someone. I think we just go for the wrong men. I think that perhaps due to Childhood issues we believe that we don't deserve better and we go for men that don't deserve us. I still have hope but someday I will believe that I deserve better than being with a man that doesn't abuse me

I really hope so. starting to think another kid should not happen for me. every time I find out what a pos he is by 3rd trimester and end up leaving him for the better of my kids.

@mommytoo2, that makes it harder. But you'll start to feel better over time 😘

@kedrababy, I wish I did.

It would be easier if u had a friends or family that could take the place of a man