Just found out my dads side of the family had their family reunion in AL, which I had to find out from my step-mom after…

girl!! I like the way u think!! ╮(╯▽╰)╭ I'm not afraid either !

and that's pretty messed up!

Girl, it's ridiculous. They are so petty & act like little kids. @vicky810 I told her "wish I would've known about the reunion, me and Riley would've came." She said "They have it every year in September, it was such a nice day". It's taken my all to keep my sanity with this woman lol

Shes literally putting it in your face smfh fuck em. 🖕🖕

Right! & then she said why don't you come over today? & I told her I can't because my car won't start I needs a new battery. She says well why don't you go get a new one then come on over. I told her I don't have the money to today, I'll have to wait till I get paid next week. She goes on and on about how she's retired now, and my dads only working 2 days that they're getting social security. Like okay? I didn't ask y'all for money so stop with that shit. It kills me though cause they haven't done anything for Riley or made an effort on their end to see her. I'm the one always having to make time, that's why they've only seen her 1 time since she's been born. @mommyofdoubletrouble

Sorry for the long replies, I just need to rant. My SO don't care to hear about her. He already doesn't like her cause he's not allowed over there but Riley is.

its okay love let it out im here to listen if you need anyone i totally understand what you go through except its with my hubbys family ! They can never make it to any event me and my SO have thrown (3 babyshowers , my sons 1 birthday) but always say we keep my oldest from them but they havent even made one effort to see him or my newest addition.. not a call or text. so i just stopped even attending their events.. they were just telling my MIL that we purposely didnt let anyone of them know i was in labor but if you even look down my page on here you would see that i had my csection scheduled for a MONTH everyone knew i was having him 9/2 smh and now they have a family event they are hosting in cancun mexico !! My MIL is going and told us but said his aunt (the main bitch queen who starts the rumors and talks the most shit) doesnt want us to know. smh i dont even care anymore all icould tell my MIL was fuck them. 🖕🖕

just hurts cause its not just one person its the whole fathers side.. ive made the effort only like 3 times and thats when they did see him.

@mommyofdoubletrouble, right I'm not even going to try anymore. Today really just pushed it. They talk all this "I miss Riley, you never bring her over, I hate that I don't get to see her grow up, you can come over anytime, blah blah blah" but obviously not. I haven't even heard from them since the last time I came over there and that was 3 months ago. Sooo? I just don't get it. But like I said I've cut family off before and I'm not afraid to do it again. Me and my dad already have a rocky relationship, cause when I was younger he always called me a "nigger lover" and that he would disown me if I ever dated someone out of my race. Remind you that was when I was 15! I put all that aside so he could meet his first and only grandchild and the day he saw her he was all in awe over her, & now they wanna act like that. BUT be blaming me! It's not my fault my baby isn't going to know you guys, or any of my family on my dads side for that matter. It just kills me cause I wanted her to know all of her family, and she's only been around my mom, 2 brothers, aunt and cousin. And she's seen them one time. We FaceTime my SO family like every other day, cause they're out of state. It just frustrates me

well do !! that's horrible to say to a 15 year old.... he was acting like we're not even human.. knowing he wouldn't mind a lil chocolate in his life too..lol ..(⊙＿⊙) but obviously he was being fake with you when he was in " awe" .... and u need to tell your mom that ...cars can take u wherever u wanna go! even over my house... u shouldn't always have to go over there.... if they wanted to be apart of her life they would make an effort! plans some arrangements or something... but I don't think they want to be in your child's life ... u gonna have to let that go and move on... hate to say that ... @rileysmomma16

Oh yeah, it's done and over. Tonight was just it for me. @vicky810

good cause that's not healthy😯